I have met a girl who seems interested but who has a fairly serious boyfriend of a year. However, I am quite confident that i completely outclass this boyfriend of hers- he is, in her own words "one step above retarded," and she reports he got an 12 on his ACT exam (which is scored from 11-36... yeah...) I'm unsure how to play it from here.

We have some contact with each other but I get mixed signals from her. She really likes this boyfriend and I'm sure is aware of his deficiencies. I could just spit game at her but I face barriers both in her behavior and in my own timidity. Game plan?

I wouldn't pick on girls who have a boyfriend for that long. You know - respect.

Decide whether you're going to make a move on her or not before wasting any more thought on this subject. Then follow through with whichever choice you make.

I have decided I want to make a move on her. Her boyfriend is not my friend and what he doesn't know won't hurt him. The only issue is overcoming her reluctance to cheat on him. How can I go about deconstructing that barrier? Should I just ignore it and plow through?