Hi,
I hope it's the right place to post it.
I'm not American so my English sucks. hope you will understand...

I'm in position that I've been several times before. I will talk about a specific woman, but it's not about her, it's about the situation.


I study with this girl math.She is HB8.5. We both 17
She is kind of Innocent. She wanted me but I didn't have the chance to do something about it because of time problems (my bad).
She doesn't want me so much, but I guess she still think of me as a kind of attractive.
I said to myself that I will try to get her back, and just start over.
I'm looking for a LTR right now, and she is the perfect girl for that- hot, funny and very fun to talk with (She is not a one-itis, she is just a very good woman).
We are going from school to a trip to Poland tonight (a trip about the Holocaust )
So after I read a topic here, I've send her this message (on the phone):
Me: I'm gonna be at the news today. Wanna join and become famous?
HB: LOL! what? Why are you on the news?
ME: I've planned to rob a bank so I'll have money for Toblerone (kind of chocolate) on the duty free and I miss a partner. Are you interested? I promise a police chase to the airport
HB: OF COURSEEE (a private joke)
ME: Great! Don't tell anybody about it. they are chasing us...
After 40 minutes:
ME: Damn, the police is here! don't worry, I'll blame [friends' name] for it.
HER: LOL ( it was really small lol- just for polite )


As you can see, after she haven't answered one of my messages, I've sent her another, which wasn't so brilliant

My question is divided to two parts:
1. About this case. What should I do now? I see her in a few hours. How should i act? what should I say.
Se must think that I'm a needy boy, which in her case, might be true.
How do I get out of this mess like an alpha?
I thought that maybe I should write her a Facebook message:
"Damn, you disappointed me. I was stuck with these irritating cousin which I told you about, and I was looking for some entertainment from you"
It's still sounds needy...
Any improvements?
Should I send this message, something else, or nothing?
What to do when i see her today on the airport?

2. More generally, how can I change the way the chick thinks about me as needy. It happens me often, that I look too needy and fuck things up cause I don't know how to get from it.


I repeat, the topic is not specific about this girl, It's about the general problem and the girl is part of it.

Thanking you in advance,
Para.

Ok whether it's true or not, tell yourself this...

I DON'T NEED THIS GIRL, OR ANY OTHER GIRL TO BE COMPLETE!!!

Cause whether you believe that or not, it is true. There's billions of women out there, and missing out on this one will not make you miserable for the rest of your life. That being said...

When you're around this girl, dont be on the edge of your seat with everything she does. If she doesn's pay you the attention that you want from her, dont let it affect you. And make sure that she knows that you don't plan you're every second of every day around her. Sorry, but based on the vibe of your post, i kind of got the impression that right now, you do. And get it out of your head that you are looking for a LTR. LTR's are something that should just happen. Play your game untill you have her hooked, and let the LTR develop naturally once you can let your barriers down (usually after having done the nasty).

The text game was great, and nothing to worry about there. Truthfully, it should be posted in the Text game post, and i plan to use that one sometime, if you dont mind of course. It was playful and made her laugh, which is awesome. Serious kudo's on that one.

Don't leave the Facebook message, it makes you look needy. Neediness is not an attractive trait and will make her bolt most likely.

While you're on the trip, at the beginning try to initiate conversation. Be witty and funny (only you know what kind of humor she responds to, so you're on your own there). After the first day or 2 of doing that, make yourself kind of scarce. Just make sure that before you do that, you leave her on a high note, where she was obviously enjoying your company. If at any point it starts to lag, execute an exit plan. Get out and come back later when you know you have an opportunity to have a good time with her.

And learn a cold read, like The Cube. Girls love this stuff, and it really helps to make them feel like you know them sooo well and connect on sooo many levels (which sometimes you really do afterwards).

Good luck with it, young padawan!