i dont like grinding that much, i enjoy dancing around the woman sort of like ballroom latin dancing salsa. Anyways at the pub it seems thats all the people do is grind, so i figured why not, might as well enjoy myself. So i find this girl to chat up with and her friend, we acknowledged its best to dance when the dj comes on, cause the local band was not so good. I leave to meet and hang with my friends, and we go when the dj comes back on again. I grind with the girl and her friend is beside us, the girl i was dancing with she leaves saying, "i will be right back" i soon see her grinding with some other guy, so i just continue dancing and grind with her friend. We stop after awhile and i go and meet with my friends and we go to the dance floor and dance a little bit after amongst ourselves.

I didnt understand leaving the person you were dancing with for someone else. Well i was certainly not used to it. I'm sure you gurus could explain that.

Anyways i see her later somewhere in the pub with her friend, i go up and chat with them again and they liked how i danced differently then other guys, i said how its because of salsa classes, she was excited wanted to join me and exchanged numbers. I feel awkward throughout this whole ordeal. I always go to latin nights so i never have to deal with this sort of stuff on a week to week basis.

I'm not sure to even call this bird, and my friends were also telling me about some 3day rule which confused me.

the one i danced with who danced ditched me to dance with some other guy, she said , "call me" in front of me, called her turned out it was her number.

phoned her the next day to plan ahead for some dancing, and she says she will think about it with her friend, cause her friend wants to join us.


FYI - the guy she was dancing with went to the bar after with her and exchanged numbers, my friends told me they saw them and was confused, when i saw her later it was just her and the friend. So seems like some chick keeping her options open.

what do you guys take from this?

bump

She was generally waiting for you to escalate and thats why she moved on, remember girls want an alpha male who is not scared to close them. Don't beat yourself up about it but you lost out, its easily done, man up and move on. You wernt really that bothered about that girl was you? Exactly. When a girl properly grinds on you and you can feel the tension, then she wants to make out, you just need to work some magic to get there first .

But I'll go through some of my techniques with you.

Grinding is pretty simple.

just some points to consider:

When grinding from the front (i.e. Facing her)

put hand on her lower back, and other hand on her waist. you can mix it up a bit if you wish, but thats the general rule, also put her arms round your shoulders. Easy make out

Grinding from behind, you basicallt want your balls to rest on her arse haha thats how close you need to be, again one hand on her waist and the other on her stomach. Or you could grab her hands and place them with yours on her stomach, this will make her feel more comfortable.

Then spin her round and go for the make out.

Grindings easy, you'll pick it up as you go along, makes things SOOO much easier in terms of K-closing and building attraction, comfort and partly seduction all in one action.

I learnt myself but those are generally the rules you need to follow and you'll be sound .