wasup. im only looking for material and such because at the time i see a girl my mind goes blank unless its so natural i can think of things my self. but i need material, just little conversation starters that would be interesting or appropriate. i dont have a problem going up to a girl as long as i have something to say. for some reason when i pop ecstasy its the easiest thing to do in the world, and i feel like a god because its so fun pickin up girls(hope that gives u an insight of what im like)

things to say approaching a girl at a club?

material for approaching at school?

material for approaching in the streets and raves?

consider my self potential so if u guys can help me step the game up, i would be most grateful

i like to have fun, but girls get the player vibe from me but i dont care because, wouldnt that mean they see the attraction in me?


plz dont post saying there is a ton of material, dont say that crap unless your showing me the material plz

Material for this, material for that. I have a few simple principles and guidelines I stick to, and I can adapt those to literally any scenario without having to think about it. I suggest you try working on that, cos you'll never worry about trivial things such as how to start a conversation or running out of things to say that way.

Solomon's got a point there, material is great for getting you started, but most ultimately, you have to rely on yourself and working on a method or process. Here's what I mean:

Approach girls with a simple opener, the key is to be friendly, open ended and tell that you have to go soon, so that they aren't worried about you lingering. If they are HB8's or below then you don't need to neg so much.

"got a question real quick, I'm meeting up with some friends, but check this out, this girl got my name from my credit card without me knowing when I paid for a bill at applebee's, then messaged me, is that weird or what?"

A question like that demonstrates higher value in you, but at the same time is not bragging. I got this from a PUA blog (can't remember at the moment), so don't kudos me on creating it. A couple responses from a question like this:

well she's stalking you
or
she must really like you, that's cute

Then you CHANGE THE THREAD! Are you two best friends? Cause you both talk the same way. BLA BLA BLA

See what I mean?

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Tyr

the most important thing in my opinion is ur attitude. walk with confidence. have a little bit of your own style, get friends opinion on what u look good in. this makes approaching women a lot easier. When u go out to a social gathering (a movie theatre/arcade in my night 2nite) and u and a girl catch each others eye (be sure to hold ur stare and make her break it) follow the 3 second rule and just walk up. use an opener or even introduce urself. transition (how do u kno each other? come here often?) dhv(i dont focus on this too much) kino. close. its a lot easier then it sounds. i promise u if u are genuinly nice and interesting to talk to, a girl will not shut u out right away.

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