Ok, before now i have not revealed my age. Recently i have been taking a liking to a girl in a few of my classes. I have used all my shit on her, comfort building, push-pull(she responded), and even went through a few great routines. Got a number close, and she txted me. This is how it went.

HB: Sup freak
Me: Hows my fav brat doing?
HB: I'm not a brat, but i have been called a bitch.

is this a bad sign?

we talk for a while

HB: So what do you do with girls?
Me: thats a little personal, but i will tell you if you play a game with me.

i start my 20 questions game which you can't lie to.(supposedly)

Everytime i ask her something she turns it sexual.

ex. So you play sports?

HB: Yeah i play volleyball, why you a fan?
Me: hell yah, its exciting
HB: You only like it becz there are girls in spandex.

The whole 20 questions went this way. We talked, about sex everything. Finally i got tired and went to sleep, told her to "let the bed bugs bite"
and don't wake me up. She replied happilly that snds fun gnite.

Next day(don't laugh) i went up to her, did a routine to build comfort and get her stimulated. She is ooking good so i ask take the plunge and ask her to a dance that is coming up. She laughs and says no, with no explanation. Tells her bff what happened they laugh in front of me. I forget about it for a while, but what the hell went wrong? I have txted her 3 times since and gotten a

HB: K whatever
and no responses

help experts

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Happy Hunting,

Dsbubba

your falling in the friends zone buddy, if shes sexual with all her responses go along with it and build sexual tension but dont be so straight forward, she probably laughed cuz she knows after that little game you played it made you immediately ask her to the dance the next day and her friend laughed cuz she knows about that little talk you guys had.
my advice fuck with her head man do the same thing shes doing to you, act like you like her but you could do better and it would also help if you are seen talking to other women. talk to all the bitches bro, increase your options

okay koo/ but i am gaming a few at a time. she has totally mind fucked me. like she as multiple personalities. And i wasn't very staight forward with her, it was like she was pushing

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Happy Hunting,

Dsbubba

yeah.. i seen you do a few things wrong.. ignoring the sexual questions and asking her to the dance.. sounds lame imo. It's obvious she wanted to fuck.. Hopefully you haven't completely blown it!!

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize

Yeah i actually full closed last night with her at a party.

She was crazy, i have scratches all over my back from her

she just wanted good friend with benefits

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Happy Hunting,

Dsbubba

no way? did u actually. reminds me of yesterday (this is dead serious) this girl i know from myspace and such organised a meeting with me in the city. Basically this girl is a real slut, fucks guys every day. After 4 hours of our FIRST meeting ever.. u guessed it.. an F* close. Didnt even feel like good game. ofcourse all my mates were cheering

yeah haha thats hilarious, four hrs? yeah my scratches just started to scab. they were pretty deep, talk about rough sex

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Happy Hunting,

Dsbubba

Dude, you snoozed.

You should have DHV when she when brought up the sex talk. Like when she brought the tight shorts in volleyball I would have said

"Yeah, I was wondering what your ass might look like in one of those numbers, I dont think you got the body to pull it off."

With the bitch remark, something like

"Oh? Who calls you a bitch? My ex-girlfriend was bitch (optional, depending on tone) I got rid of her." Make her qualify to YOU.

When she flirts and brings up sex, recipricate, just don't chase. Be aggressive, but never chase. Keep the attitude that "I'm just doing my thing, I'm not really caring what your opinion." But allways keep the frame that SHE wants you and right now you are attracted to her. But if you don't escalate and don't not make her comfortable with having sex with you, then you will allways fall into the friend zone. If she don't see that you are not comfortable with sex she is:

1) is not going to feel comfortable with having sex with you because YOU are not comfortable with having sex.

2) She is going to think you are lame in bed because you don't have sufficient aggression.

3)She is going to think you have a small penis.

4) No balls

5) Coward.


Not escalating is the ultimate DLV.

You were off to a great start, but you missed the bus friend.

When she asked what you did with girls she was serving it up on a platter, you missed, then she starts the sex talk and you miss again. Your probably out on this one. The way you are caught up and lost on simple signals and the fact that you put yourself out of the game makes me think you need to read, study and practice the basics.

Next time a girl goes this way with you....

HB: What do you do with girls?
you: I'd tell you...but the fun is in finding out...

works everytime for me. Also, I see SOOO many guys getting carried away with texts. It is just like phone calls and face to face, you have to create scarcity. If you keep texting back and forth with her she knows your hers! Drop her a great line, then don t reply for a while. REMEMBER, you are busy, you ve got stuff going on, you ve got tons of options, (this has to be your mindset), so you dont text her back and forth nonstop like every other tool she meets.

My cousin strikes out like a champ doing this text stuff. The tech may change but the rules don't!

PS, this whole thing smells of oneitis a bit too. If you really set on getting her, I'd start teasing her friend and build scarcity. But its gonna be 10x harder this time around!