So I've been talking to a HB9.

She seems pretty cool. Been talking on and off (flirting back and forth) for a week or so it seems.

So today I make an attempt at a second date and succeed (Convo is as follows):

Me: You know what I'm thinking? Bet you can't guess.

Her: You really want to eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich right now.

Me: Holy hell, are you outside on the tree looking at me? How long have you been doing this for? I knew you were trouble from the start. I already told you NO free shows! Now pay up.

Her: Sorry im broke and id come down and join you but im afraid i might fall out of this tree and hurt my other shoulder. Sorry lone ranger. You'll have to fight this one alone. Except for your friends PB & J .

Me: Damn, you are ogling other men too? Time to go out and buy me some curtains. Hey, so everytime I see you I think of Thai food. Weird?.... Yes.... very, very weird.

Her: No ur just weird... Or just a curious george wanting some really good food .

Me: Curious as I may be, I want to check it out. U should accompany this monkey to thai food tonight while we hold each others tails and swing from the trees.

Her: Oh no! I will do what I can... I have a meeting at city hall to try to keep the rink open and an exam tomorrow. What time were you thinking ?

Me: WHAT?! That's crazy. It sounds like you got some serious ass kicking to do. Looks like you are going to be really busy. No biggy. Lets hit it up Wed or Thurs.

Her: Tell me about it. But I think I'll be at the gym briefly tonight so maybe ill cya there. As for dinner, Thursday would work well for me

Me: Perfect, I've got plans tomorrow. Not sure if I'm going to the gym tonight or not. I want you to dress up for me on Thursday, something that would put Madonna to shame.

Her: Lol well, I will dress up for you but not Madonna or 80s style. Haha. I love dressing up tho

Me: If you are a good girl at dinner I might have a surprise. But you have to be extra, extra good, oh and if you're naughty I might have to spank you.

Her: ooH! I like surprises I can't wait.






OK ALL so here's my problem, I live in a small college town where really you can't do anything unless you're 21. I pretty much fucked myself by telling her I have a surprise. I was just planning to to window shopping, then to dinner, then more walking!

Can anyone suggest anything?

Also, I want to go for the kiss on this date, can anyone suggest a fool-proof method for me? Thanks.

well, that's simple. The Kiss is the suprise. And that way, it's not only a suprise, but also like kissing you is a reward, a goal to be attained.

You could even play it off by doing the good old "good night" kiss thing but before you actually kiss her, say, "So, are you ready for your suprise?" And then kiss her. (wait for a response or no...dosn't matter). Be sure to be standing very close when you say it as well.