I'm pulling the no contact thing with my ex to try and get back with her I havent called txted or tried facebooking her. She asked me if we could take a "break" which is total bullshit thats why we ended breaking up. I was planning on breaking up with her once she got back from alaska but someone told her i was going to before she got back. and she sent me a txt saying that she was thinking that we shold end it. I replied by asking her if someone told her and that is what happened. I made her bealive it was my idea to break up in the first place. The problem is we are both in a marching band and see each other almost every day. I don't look her way or talk to her.

We also both have similar friends in our social circle. Should i continue to talk to them?

How can I apply no contact with my ex if I see we see each other everyday?

I want to make her bealive that I don't need her and I truly feel Tht I don't but I would like to win her back.

Its been a few days sense the break up and she has sent me a text message saying ""Heyy so like are you pissed off at me or something because you really shouldn't be, I don't want to be the couple who brakes up and avoids each other for the rest of their lives, do you?" I didn't reply so I'm starting to think I'm coming across with the right message.

I'm in the exact same situation, she wanted to take a break because she was confused.

I told her I cared for her alot and I've given her space, I message her when she messages me and dont suffocate her.

It's going to be 3 weeks till I see her and with everyday she messages me more and more promising things, and I know when we get back to uni and she has to see me every other day she wont be able to resist me.


My advice to you is similar, if you act like a child and freeze her out it will make things easier for her, you need to tell her that you care then take a step back, if she ends it for good thats when you can freeze her out and start having a good idea, but she asked for a break, meaning shes confused and wants to think if she still wants to be with you, you're making it easier for her to walk away.

I'm also in the same social circle as my girlfriend/exgirlfriend, and how I act will be the situation thats going to arise in 3 weeks, my advice is to act completely neutral, have a good time, get people laughing, be neutral with her, dont be short and dont be over the top.


Honestly though, I'm sorry to say it but it doesnt sound like theres much hope for you having read it again, she seems to have her mind made up, its your choice if you want a friend or nothing now, with the smallest chance she'll come back to you, but I wouldnt hold on to that.

First off,why would you want her bacc?

She's obviously displayed her lack of respect for you or lack of attraction.

Yes,easier said than done,but if she wants a break-good!

Only way you can win her bacc is if you display a lack of interest in this LTR.

Same as she's done.

She now has you chasing her by her showing lack of interest in you.

You must do the same to get her chasing you.

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