I have been dating this girl going on 3 weeks now its been good but she loves to play mind games. She has been trying to make me mad and jeoulus purposely and afterwords she will admit that she was doing that. Last night she tried to piss me off by saying how she slept with someone we used to work with together my reaction was well that was before you were with me that has nothing to do with right now i showed no negative emotions at all then she said she was just lying she just wanted to sound cool then i said wow you must have some real mental issues if your going to do or say things like that she got upset and left probably expecting me to chase her witch i did not then 10 minutes later she came back apologized to me and beg me to forgive her i wasent acting mad i was just watching tv and enjoying myself about 20 minutes later i forgave her and proceeded to bang her brains out. Today we had plans to hangout after work at about 4 oclock she left the house around 1 (we live together ya she seriously forced the issue but she needed a place to stay she had other options but since shes my girl i accepted) i got back home texted her she responded an hour later she said she was with her friend chris i responded an hour later what are yall going to get into no response so i call chris he says daniel himself and nicki (my gf) went to the movies and hung out and that they just dropped him off i told him i was just calling to let nicki know that i was going out i wanted to let her know so he says he would call daniels phone (my gf phone can only txt) so he calls him calls me back and says he didnt awnser he figured that they might be going out to the island to chill i didnt show any emotion to him whatsoever and said id call him if anything was poppin. Ive met daniel once so i really dont know him.

So how should i handle this when she gets home?

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Live and let live...

Cut off all communication with her, and let her come to you.

Situations like these are hard, but it's best to say, "fuck it," and not let it bother you.

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"Ignorance is bliss."

Let's see....

1. Your gf is already living with you after 3 weeks.
2. She's playing lots of mind games with you after 3 weeks.
3. You're already at the point of calling her guy friends to basically check up on her.

Again, all of this after 3 weeks.

Where in all of this hot mess do you see things going "good"?

im wit camus154 on this 1

x 2

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!