in your guys's experience, if you've ever stolen a girl or had sex with a girl with a boyfriend, did you find out later she was a hoe? If a girl leaves her bf for you, or cheats on her bf with you, is it possible to have more than a fling with such a girl or should you just hit and quit?

Well it does tell you that she does not believe in breaking up with someone before taking her business somewhere else.

This is a bit of a problem for me. I want girl that will tell me to fuck off if she's not happy with me before hooking up with someone else.

But this is not the main problem. The main problem is that this is obviously someone that can rationalize cheating (even if her relationship is actualy in decay). So it's reasonable to think that if you start loosing attraction (or number of other possible scenarios) she can jump ship.

once a cheater, always a cheater ... in my experience.

(with the rare exception of those who have had majorly introspective life-changing events, that somehow completely changed their personalities to the foundation - which is rare)

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I think the circumstances in which she cheated initially says a lot. I am currently dating a girl who first hooked up with me when she was still 'seeing another guy.' Whilst I believe it is possible for her to cheat on me with another guy I don't think this will happen unless I completely drop my game. The last guy she was seeing treated her like absolute crap and would rarely see her or talk to her, so there was little left of their relationship. So in effect I don't think she truly saw it as a bad case of cheating as the relationship she was in was terrible and had little meaning. If she was in a meaningful LTR and cheated I'd be a lot more worried that she'd cheat again.

As long as you keep your relationship with your girl strong, keep it exciting, fresh and unpredictable she will have no reason to fool around with other guys, unless she's just a massive whore bag, in which case you shouldn't want to be with her anyway.

I think its best not to get emotionally invested with these girls early on. At least that's what I'm going to do, in my case I really like the girl but considering she cheated on her ex for me I'm definitely trying to keep my feelings for her to a minimum for now and just enjoying the ride.

Yes I've fucked girls with bfs, no I don't want a relationship with them. Im not big into relationships tho so that's my own issue. If I fucked a girl who had a bf, but I was REALLY about her, I would just chill with her n see where it goes. What IS hilarious tho, is when u see the girl n her bf together n the girl gives u that ehh he's here but I want u face...fucking priceless. U gotta know who is cool to cheat with tho. Some girls will tell on themselves, but most wont. I've hooked up with one of my best friends girls before n im pretty sure I posted something on her about a time we hooked up. I still see her from time to time (my boy lives with her now. They have a kid, but he's not into her now, he more needs a place to crash n a hole to smash). Well anyways that girl wont tell on herself because she has too much to lose. I havnt hooked up with her in a while tho n don't intend on doing it again.

Also, I don't judge girls. I like slutty girls, they are alot more fun n get wild in bed. I like sweet girls too. I just accept the girl for whatever she is. Some girls cheat because their relationship sucks but they have too much invested in the relationship to just up n leave (living together or kids or some shit). Anything is possible to...u may meet a girl who has a bf, gets with u, n then u two fall deeply in love n r together for along time. Or she could've just needed some side dick, got it, n bounced, or anything in between. Just take it as it comes, its the journey that is fun my friend, its all going to the same destination.

Definitely created trust problems for me. "If I was able to get her to cheat on her boyfriend, there might be another dude that can do it as well.", you just have to keep her really really in love with you and hope for the best. All should go well.

DON'T act jealous though, that will kill you.

[quote="ChristmasWish"]Definitely created trust problems for me. "If I was able to get her to cheat on her boyfriend, there might be another dude that can do it as well.", you just have to keep her really really in love with you and hope for the best. All should go well.

DON'T act jealous though, that will kill you.[/quote]

lol no idc abt her, I'm just curious. IDc if she cheats or not it'd just give me an excuse to bail.

If she does it once, she's more than likely to do it again. That's her nature, choosing to be with her after knowing about it or not is simply your call. I personally will to have fun but won't for a relationship. That's me, now it's your turn to decide. [to whoever reads this]


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