| Girl I met a few months back, we dated briefly but I fucked up royally as I have no clue about LTR so she called it quits. I've known her for about 5 months now.
She reinitiated contact and we saw each other and talked as casual friends. and invited me over to her place, she even cooked for me (major ioi). That's where I used the cube routine, lots of push pull, c&f and won her over (same way I just game and can easily close).
The next day we went to a few places and she was all cudly, we held hands, hugged in public, stuff that didn't happen the first time we dated. Then later that evening, we dined with her parents and a friend of hers who's in love with her (but he's ugly/fat so no worries for me) and since she considers him as a great friend she didn't want us to cuddle in front of him. (that really pissed me off but I'm not sure how to handle it, I just played it smooth, touched her when he was away, etc).
-- Question here, how do you thank her for both of the days and the meals? I never really need to thank when I was doing SNL... I mean something like "Thank you for both of the day, I had load of fun, loved the meals" sounds a little too AFC to my liking... Though about removing the Thanks... "Had a great time last two days, you're a great cook, meals were awesome."
Now that I got that part covered, I have no clue what to do next.
what she likes ?
There are maybe three (or four) things she's most into. She's really into body language and people reading (thus why the cube won her over). I want to take her over to shows about that soon as I feel it won't come as me trying to buy her love.
She likes cars, that's how I met her, she works at a car dealership and she delivered my car.
She loves alcool, not a drunky but drinking a few bottle of wines while eating dinner or a few beers while chilling in the sun.
One other thing is sex, while I know every girl likes it, she seems way too much into it. First time I ever get "I love you"s while doing it.
what she dont like ?
I'm not so sure about that one. I couldn't read much of it, what she's told me isn't much either. Like she said she didn't like flowers, reading, like random stuff.
age ? Same as mine
families ? Met her parents twice already, I'm pretty sure they like me. She's has a rough childhood, she doesn't talk to her birth mother anymore and considers her stepmother as her real mom.
work ? She's taking uni classes and working at a car dealership in the meantime. She's proud about her education so I ask a lot of things about it, like how her exams are going and stuff like that.
kind of personality ?
She's passionate about the stuff in her life. She is happy most of the time, she's had it rough before but things are going better for her nowadays. She is somewhat mean when things don't go her way but I can deal with that.
why do you like her ?
I like the fact that she's passionnate about her life, anything she decides to do, she devotes herself to doing it the best she possibly can. She's also a simply great person. she loves helping others, she's always nice to everyone. Plus she has the typical girl you want to be with qualities.
what she likes about you ?
I'm not sure about that one... I'm good looking... that I know and she keeps saying it. I'm pretty laid back and I think she like that.
She says I don't talk a lot, but practicing 60s taught me not to talk a lot, to listen and not break the tension, so I'm not sure I want to do that. I also need to know what she means by being the man (one of the reason she call it quits the first time)... I don't have to "be the man" when I'm gaming, just routines, teasing and win, but for LTR, I feel like I turn into an AFC from having no knowledge or experience.
Thanks for the help you can give.
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