Dating new girl for about 2 months now. Shes awesome, Im awesome, its awesome. But the other day she asked me if I ever got mad. I told her i do get mad but only when its warranted. She then said it would be sexy if I got mad. This was her way of telling me that she may be in need of an emotional rollercoaster.

Now up to this point thats exactly what Ive done, but weve never had a fight. The thing is, part of my overall transformation from AFC to now is that I have a very non caring attitude. So im not gonna get mad at petty shit. I let her do what she wants, but I have laid boundaries and she knows them.

But, she hast done anything out of line remotely even. shes been perfect to me so far.

so any advice on what to do?

additional point: the relationship is tight, see her once a week on avg. shes all over me each time etc etc

dude.

i feel your pain.

chicks always complain that i am cold and calm.

what they don't know is the monster i am capable of being.

i have two levels.

a switch.

level 1

and

level 10

i don't have any of the "cute" in-betweens.

i am either calm.

or

someone is going to fucking pay.

when someone flips my switch, i blackout, and people end up in the hospital.

i end up with no memory.

those are my two moods.

i don't have "moods".

i have "modes".

i am either "ok" or "not ok".

women have a whole range of emotions in varying shades and degrees.

i have two.

"ok" and "not ok".

no one wants to see me when i'm "not ok".

but enough women have tried to get me there.

idk, i'm guessing you have a temper? like me...

show her a little bit of it next time she pisses you off.

we'll call it a "controlled serving".

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Nah, Juan, be yourself at all times. If your girlfriend doesn't think of your unshakable confidence as a virtue, that is her problem...

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Can i suggest maybe if she wants an emotional roller coster kind of thing why not go from calm and instead of getting mad or angry and fighting go to the other end of the spectrum and do extra fun things. Plus when you return to calm/non caring it will seem ''meaner'' and she'll get what she wants without you having to actually get mad.

From personal experience Mack hit the nail on the head. If you're anything like him (and me) she will not like seeing you in your ''not ok mode" and in my experience if you let someone push you that far its worse then just a normal bad mood. Dont let her make you loose your cool, you'll regret it and so will she, thats for damn sure.


Sheps

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Trust me man, me and my ex never argued or anything and then one day she said things felt too perfect and it freaked her out. She wanted the arguing and wanted the emotions, Im the kind of person who doesn't get mad. My advice would be don't force yourself to get mad and cause unecessary stress.

Walk up to her, pick her up, and throw her down a flight of stairs screaming at the top of your lungs. Find out if she thought that was sexy and reply. Oh, and pics or it didn't happen.

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I had the exact same conversation with my gf ->
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Ask her to elaborate, lol.

I did somewhat, and she said she wants me to get mad at something/someone so that she can comfort me....

women...

Shes probably just looking for passion, not anger.

yep.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!