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| virgincard | PostPosted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 4:11 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Jan 26, 2011 9:57 pm Posts: 31 | | Hey guys,
Need some quick advice on how the best way to proceed in this relationship. While things are going well I don't want her to think that I am a pushover etc or that she can get away with doing anything.
Rules I learned from the game dictate that you should not give them what they want right. Obviously in a real relationship you have to at times but am I allowed to push it a bit and like say I'm not gona do this or that just for the sake of showing her I can't be controlled? Or lightly argue and try to get her emotional for fun just to show that I'm not a pushover who will always do what she says? I kno for gamin this would be correct but how so for relationships?
E.g I was sayin how I'm going to enjoy making her emotional and she said omg ur mean etc but I didn't know whether to say kidding or to carry it on! For gaming I think I've read you should push and not give in. For relationships is it any different?
Thanks for an help guys
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| JuanAntonioB | PostPosted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:40 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:54 pm Posts: 281 | | your not supposed to plan this shit out. your supposed to BE the way you are.
the way you are is supposed to be COOL , non reactive, leading, dominant, non AFC, ETC ETC.
your not "supposed" to do or say anything for the sake of showing that you cant be controlled. your supposed to demonstrate that thru your behaviour naturally, as it should be naturally ingrained in your personality.
If its not your personality, then work on until it becomes you. of couse your supposed to be single while you figure all of this inner game shit.
the way your headed/thinking/feeling, is not a good path for a healthy relationship.
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| Impreza_217 | PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 4:02 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Sep 24, 2009 10:27 pm Posts: 27 | | And for how long do you plan on keeping up this bullshit? Like the user above me stated, just be yourself and enjoy life. If she's right for you then shit will just work...don't try too hard is what im sayin, and dont be a dick to her as a means to keep her because then you're off to an unhealthy start.
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