I've never been in this situation before but.. have you guys ever dated a girl who has a speech impediment (lisp, can't say 'r', etc.)?

The reason I ask, is because there's an HB8.5 from my college who I've always wanted to meet and attempt to wheel. I was out with some friends last night and she happened to be there. I found out that she has a lisp, however, it's pretty faint for the most part. It did throw me off a little bit though. I still talked to her and made her laugh all night, made a very good first impression. But I didn't number close because I'm not sure if I'd be able to be in a relationship with a girl who has a lisp. Mind you, personally it doesn't bug me very much at all, but I'm wondering if it would after awhile. She's a super nice girl.. smart, funny, pretty much everything I look for in a girl.. which is why I'm hesitant to wheel her, because if the lisp did start really bugging me I wouldn't want to lead her on or hurt her.

Just a side note that in no way do I think less of people with speech impediments. One of my best friends stutters, and I used to not be able to say my R's.. but I've never been in this type of situation with a girl so I'm kind of clueless. Just wanted to clear that up though so none of my fellow PUA take offense

P.S. I know that I'm not in a relationship with this girl, but it's in regards to being in a relationship with a certain type of girl, which is why I posted it in the relationships forum

One...who gives a fuck...next who gives a fuck...n finally who gives a fuck??

Im saying why r u tryin to be in a relationship wit a girl you just met anyways. Chill with her, fuck her, n see what happens. If you are worried about other people opinions, fuck them. If u dig her n have fun that's all that matters. Just chill n see where it goes, don't TRY to be in a relationship...that's the last thing u want...or maybe its not I dunno. I would much keep my phone loaded wit dtf girls than one gf, but that's just me.

"If you are worried about other people opinions, fuck them. If u dig her n have fun that's all that matters. Just chill n see where it goes, don't TRY to be in a relationship"

This is the only part of your post I agree with. And yet, it is a good opinion so props to you. I'm not really worried about others opinions, just not sure if I'd be able to tolerate the lisp.

However, I'm not being an extreme try hard, trying to be in a relationship asap or anything.. but if I'm single and think I'm up for a relationship, and happen to meet an awesome chick, then I'm not gonna let the opportunity pass me by. That's all.

Cheers[/quote]