I am soon 18 and my girlfriend is soon to be 17, I worked hard on gaming her and eventually achieved my goal for traditional relationship with her but not before she fell in love with me deeply and I'd lie if I say I don't love her ( and no, this isn't because she fell in love with me, I've had that tons of times ) , she is sincerely what I've been searching for in a woman for a long time, PU just made getting to her more easily.
we are together for a little over 2 months now, but we dated 2 also so you could say around 4?

So yesterday we were together after a week we hadn't seen each other , making out talking etc' and then she says she wants to talk to me about my school prom that is in less then a month ( she cant come there from various reasons I wont throw SPAM )

she said : " for that one night only, I want you to feel completely free - forget about me for that one night, this is your last time with your school friends and I want you to feel released and be with someone if you wish "

I am a man of my principles and this is against everything I stand for, I love her and this is the reason i'm in a TRADITIONAL relationship with her - I told her that I dislike greatly what she said and she said that this is what she wants, and that inside it will bother her, but she thought about this decision a lot and this is the way she wants it to be.

so, what the hell? we are deeply in love - but she wants me to have a one night drunken stand with some slut i'll probably never see again? is this a shit test to see if I will stand up to myself and show complete dedication to our relationship? is she afraid i'm gonna cheat on her there anyways ( if she does there aren't any previous implications that would make her think that, I never cheated on her and never seemed to be ) and that it will wreck our relationship, so she 'permissions' it and like that our relationship will be in the clear? , her prom is only in 2 years so I doubt shes expecting the same permission or is there another thing that slipped my mind?

I'm almost certain that's a test of some kind. Just stand by your principles and even if some girl on the prom is giving herself to you, don't do it! Be solid, be strong, be a MAN.

I'm pretty sure this is a test on how loyal you are.
Although you have the possibility to fuck another girl. You chose her! Cuase how can you fuck another girl when you are in love with her. I think this is what she is testing. I wouldn't do it if you want to continue seeing her

lol shit test .. rofl .....

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An important detail to be added, we kissed 10 days after her 6 months BF and her broke up ( he broke up with her, but she said that she found that he wasn't loyal ), so I also find this on higher probability of a loyalty shit test, but I also want to hear your opinions and I'd expect my girl in this term of high display of love affection to either trust me enough to not worry about this sort of things or to show signs of jealousy, just so I can see that she cares about me highly.

If she was hurt by a cheating bf in the past, it is very likely that she is using this as a test to see if you will do the same or not. She might even arrange one of her friends to be involved in this, i.e. to come up to you during the prom and try to get you in bed. (or I might be watching too much Gossip Girl... )

I can see that you love her enough not to cheat on her even if she wants you to do so. Then it is simple: Don't do it and after the prom, tell her what you told us and how you felt about it. She will appreciate it.

Lol, obviously shit test then!! don't worry, just behave! ooh look, her plan worked

Tell her "Oh great, I can finally bang that blonde I've been fantisizing about".

lol

Jokes aside, if you love her and you can live without a stupid one night stand, then don't do it.

i saw this in an american pie movie or maybe she saw hallpass or one of her friends gave her the idea each time there hopin you dont do it but whats the status on this now she still thinkin this what is she going too be doing during prom u could suprise her and in a tux and say i just want to be with u during prom or if she said something like it doesnt matter what u say now u still have the option of doing it when prom come text her during prom and say prom sucks without you cause everyone agreas she definitlly testing you shes not series

once you give her permission to lead the relationship - she will destroy the relationships and draw you along...

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I'm sorry but I failed to realize what you mean, even on the slightest clue.
Please explain yourself.

OMG, never trust a woman when she says something like this, she doesn't mean it. I don't know why girls do this kind of stuff, why such shit test. I'd still go to the prom, you shouldn't miss your prom just because she can't go. Behave and you'll be ok.

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even if anything happens, don't tell her. otherwise stick by your beliefs and dont do a thing. Go crazy, party it up enjoy time with your friends but don't compromise yourself. I would also say its either a shit test or she wants to feel okay for something she DID do already...

Shit test...such is reverse psychology! Go do it...and you most likely won't...you'd better not do it...and you probably will!

You love your girl, no doubt, but this isn't something you should really ask...again, it's better safe than sorry...either way...enjoy your night as most have said, you never get another prom...but be smart! If she says why didn't you...perfect opportunity to say...I already have what you need in my life, and Im kinda hungry too, what's for dinner!

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It doesn't matter what her intention is when it comes down to it. Like Lode basically said before, don't let her tell you what to do and lead the relationship because that makes her the dominant one and you the submissive one and that's not what 98% of women want from a man.

Do whatever YOU want to do and that's what she wants you to do. Don't sit around talking about how much you love her and how it hurts you inside and "blah blah I'm a little boy that doesn't know what to do with a woman, tell me what you want me to do!" Just do whatever the fuck makes you feel like a man and she'll love you for that.

If you tell her you did it or didn't do it because of/for her then you've failed the test. It isn't about whether you'll "cheat" on her, it's whether you've got the balls to be your own man and do "whatever makes you feel completely free", no matter what that is! Get it?! So whatever you do, do it for you, not for her. If you wouldn't like yourself for "cheating" then don't have sex with anyone else, but she's obviously not that hung up on it, she just wants you to be happy, so if there's some girl you've got a thing for and this is your last chance for the two of you to hook up, then she's telling you that she loves you enough that she doesn't want you to have any regrets in 20 years when you may not be with her anymore just because you were so infatuated that you wouldn't dare to live the way you truly wished you could have.

If I didn't sleep with other women my girl would probably get tired of how much attention I like to get and give and she'd think I was needy and clingy, so I fuck other women for her and everyone else in my life because it makes me a happy man. I'm not gonna tell you which you should do and she doesn't want to either, so make up your own mind and be the man that she wants you to be FOR HER.

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