Not necessarily a problem but my gf gets hit on quite a bit...I'm not a jealous guy at all and I'm comfortable with her telling me about, I enjoy it I laugh at some of the pick up lines....now how should handle it if she gets hit on in front of me?

I usually just mark my territory. Get in there, get introduced to the guy, be nice to him, then give your girl a nice wet kiss in front of him and shortly grab her ass LOL. You can then eject and go have a drink or whatever.

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Yeah that is a good idea, don't let no one chat your girl up, it shouldn't really be in your nature to let that happen anyway.

I laugh at guys that hit on my girl because I have nothing to worry about. Last time it happened I was probably 30 feet away and the guy didn't know we were together. I listened to the whole awkward interaction, with my girlfriend just being polite until she pointed to me and said I was her boyfriend. The guy quickly lowered his voice and said he better stop talking to her because I was kind of big, he then quickly exited. I just pretended I didn't hear any of it. The majority of guys have zero game or ability to talk to women. There was only once I felt a slight bit of jealousy while listening to my girlfriend get hit on because the guy approached her just as I would have, which was cocky, funny and not overtly trying to hit on her.

I know I'm probably an anomaly, but I enjoy watching guys hitting on my girl. Like BigRyana says, I don't have anything to worry about, and I think that if the guy's good (which isn't all that often), I might pick up a tip. Otherwise, it's good entertainment watching them bumble and stumble.

If that is true... why do you need help?

I usually end up making friends with a guy if he talks to my girl. Not because I'm hovering (don't do that) but when I make my way back to her, she introduces me, I chat the guy up, we may have quite a bit in common... at some point he realizes I'm the boyfriend, and stops pursuing.

The cool thing about the above reaction, and I've seen it go this way, is that guys who try to blow me out in front of my own girlfriend come off as creepy or pushy. They get abandoned or ignored pretty quickly, and then we laugh about the creeper.

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Well just cause it hasn't happened in front of me, I really don't need help just wanted some feedback on how most guys handle the situation, so far so good

The concern should be when you aren't around...there aren't many, but there are some that may give you a run for your money! And we all know that here. Now, if she is handling that with ease and blowing them off, then I'd find it funny to see it unfold in front of me. I'd do as the rest and watch...or if in conversation I overheard commonalities, then cool, I'd interject...but to go apeshit on the guy...Nah! You would have to be with some girl to want to be picked up by another dude next to you and if that's the case, then something was missing, let her go!

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I too am amused when it happens. If its on msn, I usually give her funny things to say.

Like most guys above said, it's no big deal if you know your the man. Most guys have 90 game, and just make you look better. And if your girl does meet another guy that she likes, then that's fine too, there is another girl out there better for you and that guy did you a favor.

I've done what other guys have done, and just be cool to the guys if I'm ever there.

One other time when I walked up to my GF in a club, I didn't notice the guy behind her talking to her. He said, "Hey are you hitting on my girl?" I said, "YOUR girl?" He said, "Oh, sorry man, we were just having fun." I said, "It's cool man, she's my sister. Good luck!" Then I smiled at him, winked at my GF, and walked off. She joined me a couple of minutes later laughing histerically.

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Nsm...HILARIOUS!

I forgot to mention that I got the, "She's my sister." Line from Zan. He said he always introduces girls this way, especially if they are girls he has just met and is gaming. It invites guys to hit on her, shows that you don't care, and becomes this fun inside joke.

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I saw this on another forum:

[/quote]i was in a club and i saw some guy chatting up my girlfriend he didn't look like he was getting very far tho. anyway i walked over and kissed my girlfriend on the cheek then said
me: are you trying to get with my girlfriend mate?
him: er well
me: you're allright mate, what's your name?
him: john
me: i'm richy, but you can call me the c*nt who ruined your chances, what you drinking?
him: jaegerbombs
so i bought a round the three of us had a laugh then me and my girlfriend went back to the dancefloor. [quote][/quote]

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A simple line like this lets the dude know who you are.

Hey babe, who your friend?

give her a squeeze or hold her hand. nothing overt and over the top. play it like you dont give a shit that he is talking to her.

It also helps if you have a bit of size on your side. I am 6ft1. that helps a lot! lol

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