Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time about 2 weeks ago. I was hard but I couldn't get all the way hard while I was inside of her. I didn't get to go all the way in because she was a virgin it was hurting her. She seemed like she enjoyed it but was embarrassed because she said it seemed like I didn't. I did the boyfriend thing and didn't directly say "yeahh it was pretty bad" but I kind of avoided it and said something like, "It was only the first time...We have nothing but time to get it right" The only thing that irritates me is that she seems pretty satisfied when she leaves but I'm not. I've been with her for about 5 months and never got my nut! I feel like the least she can do is give me a BJ until I cum or at LEAST a handjob. We'll be going at it and then when she's done we'll just stop...out of the blue. She gets up and starts putting her clothes on and everything. We're still very young, how would I get it across to her that I WANT MY FUCKING NUT?!

I'm going over her house tomorrow she said she'll make me breakfast etc. I'm almost 100% sure that things will be done.. So basically how do I let her know that without making her feel too embarrassed to even be sexual with me? She already told me she doesn't feel like she's good enough sex wise.. so I don't really wanna be an asshole about it

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Tell her you want to come after she comes.

Then...

Give her an orgasm, and keep going until you come.

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- Lux et Veritas -

The thing is, she was a virgin not too long ago. I have yet to be able to get it all the way in without her complaining. So I'll pleasure her but it's damn near impossible for me to cum under the circumstances until she gets used to it. So I want her to at least make me cum by a handjob or something if I don't during sex. It's frustrating as fuck starting and not being able to finish. It's funny bcuz some guys have the opposite problem and finish too quickly but I would love to be in their shoes right now.

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As explained before, tell her you want to nutt too...there isn't anything wrong with that...let her know, perhaps in a sexual tease, damn, I wish I could nut like that... and laugh.

Does she say to you that she doesn't feel sexual enough for you???

If so, capitalize on that moment and ask her, why don't you feel sexual enough...do you want to feel more sexual? If so, it's going to require..."more Practice". You don't get good at something over night and for you...you'll never get what you don't ask for! Ask her, direct her, tell her what you want...she was a "VIRGIN", she most likely has the slightest idea what to do with your cock and if she isn't letting you get your nutt, there is a good chance that if she puts your cock in her mouth, she will have the slightest idea of what to do! Not a bad thing, everyone needs to be coached!

What about a flick, let her watch another chick get down with dude, perhaps then she can get an idea of what it should look like and how it's done...

Either way, you will need to take control and yes, you don't want to be an asshole about it, just be confident in saying, hey, let's do this, or I'd like to try this with you...it'll be fun and go for it...

Have you also tried prolonging her orgasm, if you can tell when she is about to cum, let off the gas and then try again, let off the gas, rinse and repeat, she'll see what it's like!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Noo she told me directly that she doesn't know what she's doing sexually and she's embarrassed and feels like it's not good enough for me. I did exactly this jokingly a couple minutes ago on the phone.
She wants me to come early so here is how the convo went

Me: I don't know if it's really worth it for me to come over that early...I just hope it's better than I expect
Her: It will be THE BEST! I'll make sure that it's worth it for youu
Me: Ohh really?! I hope soo...now I can't wait!
Her: I'm going to be soo tired in class afterwards
Me: YOU?! IF I end up cumming (I put emphasis on this) I'm gonna be fucking sleep on a desk
Her: You will...I'll try to make sure of that this time

I've really been hinting it lately that I'm tired of masturbating all the time in order to feel satisfied. She HATES porn and she hates the fact that I watch it even more! I'll be sure to let you guys know how it goes tomorrow morning...like I said, hopefully iy goes better than I expect

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Well, don't go in with too high of an expectation, you will be disappointed if you don't get off but dude, if that is how it went down, then you gotta give her credit for at least acknowledging the fact that you aren't happy and she is trying to change that...don't take it too far or be to hard on her otherwise she will feel like a failure and then may just give it up with you only to give it up to someone else!

If she in fact does get the job done tomorrow, do your best to appreciate her and tell her how amazing it was, even if you know it could be better, give her props, it will boost her self confidence in a time you will find she needs it most, she needs to hear that she is doing good, it'll only want to make her out do herself and guess what...WIN WIN for you bro....BOO YAA!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Spend more time on foreplay. Get half way there before intercourse so you can cum faster.

I think im desensitized/stressed/thinking too much because I rarely cum unless I use my hand.

As hard as it's going to be I think I'm gonna have to give up masturbating for a while.. Because half of the problem is I can't get fully erect. I'm only like halfway hard...hard enough to slip the condom on and penetrate..that's about it. Maybe that'll help out a lot.

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I have the same problem man.

I can get hard, but can't cum inside the pussy. I've managed to do it only once in the last 5 times of fucking.

look up "death grip syndrome".

You have to change the way you masturbate.