So I have this little girlfriend who I used to trust but I don't anymore. She was like crushin on some other dude pretty recently. (she's crushin on me now) so what should I make her do to earn my trust back? Thanks a bunch guys.

Far more details are needed.

Yeah. Just how little is she?

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I don't trust her because she left me for some other guy. Now she likes me again, but I still don't trust her. I know I need to make her work to earn me back. She needs to earn my trust back. I told her that I was going to tell her how she can earn my trust back later this week. I'm trying to challenge her. What do you think I should make her do?

why are you taking her back if she left you for another guy?

Fuck that. She had her chance and fucked up, discard her and move on. Seriously, you should have a zero-tolerance policy for that bullshit. I'm actually pissed off for you.

it doesn't work like this.

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Do NOT get involved in an exclusive relationship with someone you don't trust. Be friends with benefits, if you must.

Oh, and you don't need to do anything at all, really. You could just show some self-respect and ignore her.

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Yeah, I'd just tell her directly that she needs to earn your trust before you're willing to get back into a relationship with her. It does a number of things;

1. Shows that you're not going to put up with it
2. Shows that she needs to work for YOU
3. Doesn't make you look like a pussy who will forgive her for everything

Meanwhile, game her, fuck her, but continue to see other women until you think you can trust her to take her back. Personally, I wouldn't, but if I was in your situation and I was thinking about taking her back, thats what I'd do

I'll have a talk with her, what's her number?

Show her this thread

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lol

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I can promise you from my personal experiences that this will not work out. You will never be able to trust her again, no matter what she does. In general, second chances don't work. There's a reason you broke up in the first place, and they're usually quite complicated. She moved on to some other dude, sure, but there's a reason she did that. Most likely you're just not compatible, and that will eventually come up again as soon as you get past the "I missed you, we were great together" phase. Take some advice and have some self-respect and don't even dignify her advances with a response. She moved on and you have too.

so u guys really think i need to just move on?

I'm sorry, did we sugarcoat it too much for you?