So, I would put this in closing, but i figure its probably different when first getting attraction vs. having the girl as a girlfriend. How long do you generally recommend waiting before responding to a text/im. And do you write short concise answers or long paragraphs?

Always keep it short and concise....text a few times a day, but u gotta make it look like ur tha man and doing something else. Make sure u end it.

as soon as i have time, ill text back. i wont drop things to do it, but i wont delay my response for no reason. the length on the answer depends on the question asked. if it requires an in depth explanation, sometimes it usually better to call and explain.

I guess it depends on how long uve been together and your own security levels. If your still at the stage of needing to play games to maintain interest then I agree dont drop what ur doing to reply. Maybe save depthy stuff for conversation. Face to face is always better than over the phone for difficult stuff.

if you're in a relationship and you have to play games to maintain interest, you may want to rethink being in that relationship

You have to wait exactly 5 minutes and 26 seconds until you should text again.

Ok now seriously :

Look man...there things are very dynamic. If you try to wait very much you will probably fail. You will end up annoying the girl.
How can I tell you how long should be your text if I don't know the question ? Just try to pay attention to the interaction, and you WILL notice if you act needy.

Always keep it short and concise....text a few times a day, but u gotta make it look like ur tha man and doing something else. Make sure u end it

I agree
My text messages are usually short, vague and I always end the conversation first.
I communicate that I'm busy and don't have time to text. If she wants to 'talk', we can do it in person.

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oh man. i had this problem of counting the time between texts. is it because the other person takes a little bit longer to do so? the attention you get from playing games only lasts as long as you play it.. kinda not worth it after awhile.

lots of good advice here ....

i usually text long text messages which are made to stimulate the girl emotionally ... so no boring lines and conversations. i never ask questions unless i want to see how far her compliance is. of course when you text message 20 times a day your conversation material can run dry so i try to close as fast as possible. don't be a clown by making it too fun.....balance it.

if you already having a relationship you are far better off by not texting much at all....if you text or call all day when the hell are you going to talk about after a few weeks. i never text girlfriends unless it's important , i also never chat with them on facebook etc.

never ask questions unless you are asking something funny , always pretend like you're bussy , close fast but not too fast - waiting kills attraction. close or ask questions when you pumped her with good emotions and all these funny texts.

every dude text messages a girl , especially the ones that want to get into her pants .... girls only allows those guys as entertainers / slaves ... set yourself apart by not texting too much since its a waste of time anyway - rather work on your personality.

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