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When she tells you things like how she needs to stop it, etc. Don't take ANY of it seriously. Just laugh and say, "If you say so." In situations like these, girls don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. People get hurt in relationships because they believe the shit the other person is telling them. Their actions speak differently or they try to not act.

Just stay cool and keep your emotions under control, do not panic. We forget who we are and we instead believe what the other person is saying because of our feelings.

Don't argue with her, instead laugh and irritate her. That is how you get control of the situation. She's the frantic one..you're the enthusiastic one.

I have been in the opposite situation, and I've gone insane before. Remember when you first meet a girl and she says things that disqualify you and you don't care that much? Well it's the same when you're in a relationship instead that you CARE when she disqualifies you and that adds up and drives you nuts. You keep asking yourself what you did wrong, etc.

She's only acting up now. You can make her go crazy for you in a short amount of time and you do that by taking an opportunity to make her feel really bad and guilty. Don't put her down, don't argue back. Just say, "You're the opposite of what I look for in a girl." And your actions must follow what you say...give her a lot less attention. This will drive her nuts.

Hey Adillinar,stop being so down on yourself man.

Nyeto is 100: correct,when the gf says things like,"I cant do this anymore",etc.

Dont take it seriously,unless you're literally doing something to fuck up the LTR.

I wrote a post days ago about this exact behavior of my gf.

My MILF gf has told over 100 times(during our 2 year LTR)that "we're done,she wants to break up".

To this day,she never actually did break up.

If I'd taken her seriously,I would've ended it stupidly,not realizing that women crave drama.

Women are very emotional,irrational & hormone-filled.

You know this Adilinar.

So when she whines of how you hurt her and she needs a break.

Dont take it too serious unless you know you've been fucking up.

Dont laugh in her face neither.

I go through the same crap with my MILF gf constantly(up to last night).

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Dont know man, but it looks like there are stuff bothering her and this makes her uncertain about the future. Hve you tried in asking her whats bothering here and let her know that that was the past? But agree, women do put up one hell of a drama!

Sorry to hear this. Crying, and arguing can all be part of a healthy relationship as long as it is experienced with highs of happiness to. I know lots of couples that fight all the time, including parents married for years but it still works. I think that you could possibly move past this but I am not sure exactly how. You say she cries about past things you have done. I think you need to take a step back and look at yourself and see what maybe she is thinking of. Maybe you need to confront things about yourself that are not good and change. If this is going to long term now she is realizing maybe that the only way she can stand this is if you do change these bad things. Good luck

@Anon-Good obseravtion and insight on this.

Very down-to Earth thing to say.

A lot of guys hve this false notion that a good & healthy LTR means no conflict at all.

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Afternoon,

Well, basicly what you accomplished is, you see her, you argue -> Bad emotions...

this happens again, and again...

Automaticly her brain will attach those feelings to you...

(My sister was asked to babysit on a kid one day, she's great with children, she arrives, and the little boy accidently falls and hurts his head, the first time he sees her... Every time he saw her, he attached those feelings to her face and started crying)

So what happens is, she thinks of you, and automaticly the bad feelings come up, same for when she sees you... and if you keep giving her bad emotions every time you see her... this is not going to last...

What i would do, is be less butthurt, and make sure you and her HAVE FUN...
Can't be that you never had fun, the 2 of you?

go back to those days, the days that where glorious for you 2, let her relive that, and let her see, that you are still the same person...

Good luck!