I've been seeing this girl for around two months now. When I first was seeing her we'd fuck like bunnies all the time and I was super attracted to her. About 2 or 3 weeks ago she said she wants us to go official even though she knew I wanted no relationships. She said either we make it official but not super serious, or we can't be friends. I started dating her and now she's super attracted to me and I only really see her as a friend. I think I want to break up with her and maybe we can be friends later. It's been very confusing for me.

What should I do? Thoughts? Comments?

she insists on being exclusive or she won't even be friends?

that is an ultimatum, my friend.

and the hallmark calling card of a manipulative woman.

read this post > signs-of-an-emotionally-manipulative-woman-vt87161.html

i'm not saying she is one of these, but it's worth the read, just to make sure you aren't in the opening stages.

Nice article man. She does do some of these things but I don't think she means to. Like she's a great person and all, but this ultimatum is trapping me in a relationship that I'm not fully happy in. She like wants me to tell people that she's my girlfriend and show affection in public like she's looking for validation or something

Tell her the truth. Accept the consequences.

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As usual, I agree with Wal on this one.

Yea, thanks a lot guys. I just needed someone to vent out to. I broke up with her and she hates me, but at least I don't have to live a lie and pretend I was having a blast.

And you're right Mack, she was manipulative, a lot of what she did and said was to get some sort of validation from peers. Thanks man

Ha! Awesome! "but at least I don't have to lie a lie and pretend I was having a blast"

Excellent! Move on, actually find something (or someone) that makes you happy.

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