I have been dating a HB9 for about 2 months now and we really like each other and get along well. WE spent the first month of our relationship seeing each other every day, perhaps a little too much, but nonetheless, it was great, as I am really into her.

We had great sex every time we met for the first month, but lately, our schedules being so fucked (her working late, me traveling) and her being on her period last week, we haven't had sex in 2 weeks now. We also have been seeing much less of each other and I made it a point to tell her that was intentional. I told her I wanted us to maintain our independence and take things slower and she 100% agreed, which I thought was awesome.

Problem is, now we don't have as much sex as I believe the "honeymoon" phase is over and this week we have only hung out 2 times. I like having space, but at some point I want this to develop into a strong LTR. SO how do you push the relationship forward, when ready, into a more serious LTR type relationship where you are spending more and more time together? our schedules really are opposite and prevent us from seeing each other as much as we'd like, but I have also explicitly said that I want to slow things down and maintain our lives outside of the relationship.

So, my question is, how often do you see your GF, and how long have you been with her? Also, how often do you have sex? I haven't been in a LTR since about 2 years ago, and now since discovering PUA and all this, my mindset is different so I am a little bit of a n00b in that regard.

Thanks

i have been dating a hb6 for about five months now, like you we had sex several times a day for the first couple of months and she was at my house everyday for about three months. i needed space told her so, and we went wierd for about three weeks. we got back on track with her staying over everyday and now the sex has gotten much less.

we had a couple of arguements and what not, but nothing serious just working out the kinks in our different personalities.
i dont know if we are spending too much time together, but we get along and really like each other .
i dont understand the sex thing, but i am at the point where i aint asking for it cause i feel like she should speak up too.
i am keeping my options open though

I dont get why you would tell her that you wanted space, then ask how do I spend more time with her? How bout telling her that you dont want to have space anymore.

I told her I want space because I could sense that she was being suffocated too. She just doesn't have the guts to say it, so I said it first, looking, hoping for agreement from her and sure enough, she agreed.

I do want space but I was more asking how to step it back up into more frequent time spending when I (and her) am ready...

I know where you guys are coming from, Iv been in a relationship with a HB8 for 9 months now and has been great, We recently started spending more time together though and were together virtually everyday for 3 weeks straight and now my feelings on the reltionship have changed if its possible?
Maybe im just needing space but i just don't have the motivation and now when we have had 3 days apart there has been little conversation or feeling iv missed her, cant help but think might be beginning of the end which i really don't want!

3 / 7 days a week -> 6 month relationship

I think that seeing each other only a couple times a week is probably a good way to go about it. If she see's you everyday, she could get bored and have nothing to look forward to (you are too available). If you keep yourself sparse then she will really look forward to the time that you spend with each other.