The 3 Necessities of Healthy Relationships

The 3 necessities of a healthy relationship are attraction, connection, and loyalty.

Every relationship between males and females can be analyzed through these 3 tests.

Does the relationship have loyalty and connection but no attraction? Then you are “just friends”.

Does the relationship have attraction and connection but no loyalty? Then you are in a relationship that “isn’t going anywhere”.

Does the relationship have attraction and loyalty but no connection? Then you “don’t understand” each other.

Does the relationship only have attraction? Then she “likes you”.

Every relationship needs the above 3 criteria for it to be truly successful. The kind of “love” that women dream of are the feelings she gets from having attraction, connection and loyalty to a man.

It’s important to realize that attraction is the single most important aspect of your relationships with women! If a woman is attracted to a man enough, she will do almost anything for him. Nothing else matters! It doesn’t matter how old you are, what you look like, how much money you have etc....because a woman responds to feelings.

Feelings are the secret to understanding women’s “bizarre” behavior. Everything she does is in response to her feelings. You can’t logically convince a woman to be with you. In order to be successful, you have to attract her. The feelings she gets from being around you will make her respond to you favorably, the way you want.

If you’ve ever wondered why the most beautiful women sometimes date average looking guys, it’s because of attraction. There is something she feels to that man that can’t be logically explained. Any guy who has ever asked a woman to explain why she does anything can understand this. You will never get the truth out of a woman when she has to explain herself. She will give you logical reasons she believes is the truth, but it is the feelings that control her behavior.

The secret to attracting women is to remain a challenge. Independence is attractive to women. Do you ever wonder why women in the past you have no interest in sometimes were attracted to you? You never “chased” them. You never “hit” on them. You had no interest. However, this did not stop them from having interest in you!


Action Step

Today, realize the need to always remain a challenge in your interactions with women. This is effectively done through teasing. Challenge creates attraction. Attraction is the most important aspect of a relationship. If the attraction is strong enough, it will overcome anything!