Is it a good way to tell her this by eliciting all her personality traits that I like and match my standard? She keeps asking "why do you love me?" "what do you like about me?" "What are we?" "what is it between us?"

It basically means I'd tell her a bunch of cold reads one after the other customized to her personality, filtered by my "requirements". Is that not going to give her too much validation? How about Catstring theory, should you continue that in a relationship?

What I mean is, what do you say when you agree to be in a relationship and you make it "official"?

I personally don't believe in any "making it official" kind of things - you just know, and eventually both mutually realise i guess.

But more importantly, have you closed yet?

Sounds complicated!


No. No to all of the above.
You say, "I want you to be my girlfriend, exclusively."

I have the feeling you won't be satisfied with my answers. To have a healthy relationship, stop all these games you mentioned above. She is asking you questions like "What are we?" because you're a confusing person, playing "cat-string" and "cold-read" "customized" blah blah blah. Just stop.

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