Hi guys, I just found out the other day that my girlfriend who I wrote about in another thread actually was cheating on me. She didn't sound trustworthy anyway, and I should have listened to everyone telling me to get rid of her. But anyway the thing is I'm really starting to lose faith in women. I've been with girls that have had boyfriends (that they didn't tell me about until later on, after we'd fucked and stuff), I've been cheated on a few times, and what made me write this post is that right now I'm on Facebook, and there's a girl here who is engaged... She's telling this guy she loves him so much, she liked one of those stupid group things that said "I would never cheat, I only want you"... Yet I know she's also been shagging my cousin for quite a while, even with other boyfriends too... So like what is the best way to tell whether a girl is trustworthy or not?

Don't listen to her words, look at her actions, the proof is in the pudding

Date older girls

I bet those are under 22?

They are immature. They don't know what a relationship (serious one) is all about and they are constantly looking for validation.

And i add this:

If you are from the beginning not sure whether a girl is thrustworthy, and your friends tell you the same ("she doesn't look like it") get rid of her.

Because obviously you don't trust her, and you don't trust her for a reason...

It will be a pain in the ass for all the time you'll be with her, cause people you can't change. And it won't be better if you wait it out.

So my advice is don't lose your time.

Yeah you're right about the age, the girls I've been with are like between 17-20 years old. I'm only 20 myself.

Those aren't even grown up. Sorry to say mate.

But don't expect too much. 7 out of 10 has no clue what it is all about. You need to be lucky to find someone who is a bit MORE mature given their age.

Once i was with a girl of 22 who didn't even understand that staying friends with an ex is difficult, not to say impossible. A friend of me had to explain it. Like explain to a kid. She said: "oh,... strange.."

I mean....

Yeah it makes sense, I was thinking that earlier. They don't have a clue what they're doing. I guess I should just wait til I'm a little older before I get into a committed relationship anyway.

There's nothing wrong in going into a committed relationship but the odds that THAT one will be a the ONE are very , very low.

Yeah, but then there's no point getting into one anyway when it probably isn't going to last lol

When she is scarred of loosing you, from the current relationship im in.

1. You never know - but don't count on it.

2. EXPERIENCE.

3. Have fun, you are young mate.

Yea, I believe the female brain isn't even finished developing at this point.

Long story short, I think if it doesn't feel right in your gut, it's likely for a reason. There's a difference between insecurity and that ominous feeling in your gut.