Alright ill show you whats going on here.

This girl i met a while ago is asking me to hang out. When i met her i ignored her cause she had a boyfriend and i didnt even bother sarging her, but her friends who were single at the time i was all for. Anyway shes single now and shes clearing indicating she wants to fuck me.

Text messages:
"your really cute, I think we should hang out soon[;" - Her
"why thank you[; what would you like to do? ;p" - Me
"well I was thinking we can hang out at my house sometime soon[;" - Her
"that sounds good to me, but give me a hint to what your thinking of doing[;" - Me
"well i was thinking something like me and you in my room no parents home under the cover doing..well im sure you can use your imagination" - Her

Well you can see where that lead on to, well I've been texting her the past few days all of which she has texted me first. That is besides the point, here's my issue.

"Yess exactly[; anddd jw but like after we hangggout and get to know each other a little more... eventually you looking fora realtionshippp ;p"- Her

I want nothing to do with this girl past the point of fb and or friends with benefits if even. I would like a to keep has a my fb, my booty call, any other term you'd like to use here. So I played the honesty game.

"Ill be completely honest with you, no. especially not with me going on a cruise that is coming up soon, and me driving down to miami with my friends during spring break. A legit relationship is the last thing on my mind right now" - Me

"naah thats fine i totally understand. a legit relationship im not looking for either right now... bc i just got outtta a bad breakup not to long ago and sooo im just loooking to have some funn -insert hearts*-"

So im getting the idea that she would be perfectly okay with exactly what im looking for, but how would I solidify this. As in telling somehow in the most friendly way possible I would like to use her solely for sex, and the occasional chit chat. Keep in mind the day we planned to chill she told me her parents will be home by 4:30 so I take it as its going to be a get in and out scenario which add to my belief that shes on the same page as me. But how would i make sure were on the same page and not end up offending her or losing what's going on in the process

*Apparently making a heart cuts of the rest of the post, so just pretend you see several hearts there.

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“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”

If she said that she isn't looking for a relationship either, it sounds like you don't need anymore validation. Besides...she can say just sex but can change her mind later...what are you going to do then...throw that in her face and say...NO, you just said sex so that's it...you will definitely lose her then.

Take it for what it is...she put it out there that she wants to get laid...play it cool, don't start peppering her with are you sure type questions as you will most likely run her off. She is into you...be patient and when it's time to go...then you know it's on...there is no need to over analyze this.

Once you get the business done...that's when you will know whether or not it's going to be a friends with benefits thing.

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.