How should I break up with my girl. I got fooled, she looked pretty damn hot when I first met her. She had contacts, and probably a decent load of make up. Then I see her with little make up, and she was covering A LOT! (And no contacts) I'm just not attracted to her face. (Her body is cool though) Anyways, I don't want to have sex with her. She's super attached, telling me she loves me. Buying me these things - Showing signs of LTR... man I don't want that! We had sex for the first time the other day, so I can't just all of a sudden cut it off. I was thinking about telling her that we should try an open relationship, b/c we're young and don't want anything serious... (Hopefully she bites and likes someone else) But damn, what if she doesn't. I need some help guys. I don't wanna break this girls heart.

We've been in a relationship for under 6 months.

Be straight up with her. Tell her that you are not looking for anything too serious right now and a more casual relationship would be better.

Next week lol. I kinda lied to her when I picked her up. "I don't want you for sex. You're different. I can't have sex until I know you". I know I should be straight up with her... but would you recommend anyways specific ways so the blow will do minimal damage?

I lol'd.

just tell her (face to face)

be super needy and always act insecure. Also fake a personality disorder. She will dump you in a week, or you'll be able to dump her and she'll be relieved rather than upset.

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hahaha, great why haven't i tought of breaking up like this

First, try to text / call her less than before, show less affection to her for about 1 week. She will feel that someting happen.

While she asks you, tell her that you relation is not like before, that you are young and you have several doubts about your feelings ...

She will understand, ask for a break, and 1 week after, break up

Yeah i know that feeling, had something similar for 3yrs, though her body wasnt that good. Well you cant break up without breaking her heart, unless you make your self look bad, like being to needy having bad habits, treating her not really well, but this stuff will work against you. You have to tell her, and the faster you will do it, the better it will be. Just say that you don't love her and its nothing to do with her its all about you.

Doesn't always work. Tried it. She ended up saying "I feel we are now even closer as I have seen this whole new side of you"... She was super needy.



I guess my advice is the same as that from before; just be honest.
Tell her you're looking for nothing serious and that if that is what she wants then maybe you shouldn't see each other anymore.


"It's not me, it's you"
"I am looking for something serious right now... But with some I actually like"
"I don't even want to be friends. I HOPE YOU DIE!!!"

Those are some harsh ways to break up... But she'll definitely leave you alone.

...Probably don't say those though.

I agree with this...it can back fire big time for you.

As said previously, just be honest...there is no great way to be broken up with...you know that.

Put yourself in her shoes...you find this girl, so into her...you think she is the one and then she tells you...you aren't my type...laters. How would you feel?
Is there a way she could have done it to lessen the blow...aside for giving you perhaps a farewell blow??? Not likely....

My point, Don't be a dick about it, but be straight up...you'll be doing her a favor in the long run and you won't have the headache of having to juggle excuses to see her.

yeah... I think its best to be honest, if you aren't its possible that you feel some guilt after seperating....