Imo I'm pretty damn good at getting cute girls into my bed, but for some reason after that it never seems to develop into anything. In the last 2 years of fcloses Ive not had 1 single serious relationship! Seriously...

So in the last few days I met a girl who I actually see some potential in, super open minded and cool above other things. At first it was just about sex, I did all the usual stuff, telling her Im a bad guy and not to like me too much or she'll get hurt which seemed to work really well. Then last night I cooked her the most romantic meal, ended up slow dancing in her bedroom room, then spent 2 hours on JUST foreplay... Party because her period is not completely finished. But it was a really great few hours for both of us, I can tell she is starting to fall for me and I for her.

THEN, I made a stupid mistake. This girl is so open minded and straight talking I thought it might be a good idea to reveal a secret, the secret that I know about PU, although I said I didn't need it on her any more because I already had her and now everything I was feeling was real bla bla.... she really didnt seem to care but after that all the romance disappeared! So now I'm on the back foot and don't know how to turn it back around! If I try to be extra romantic and nice to her I'll be try hard, but playing hard to get and emotionless in the wrong way at this point also wouldn't help.

Does anyone have any ideas, routines, anything I can do to try get this back on track and that feeling we both had last night before I fucked up..... I dont wanna wait another 2 years for a girl I actually like.....

Too late, never reveal anything about PUA, because it kills all mystery and personality.
Maybe try again in a year?

Yeah, let this be a warning for anyone else... but actually things are back on track now. Basically said a bunch of stuff to her down the line of her being very different from all other girls, so and so i never did for anyone else and got her to see that the game has already been won and from now on its all real. Which is kinda true. Then last night she was the one bringing up the topic of where this is going. Very nearly lost this girl for something so stupid though...

On the subject of words with women, always err on too little. "Brevity is the soul of wit"

never open yourself up to a girl. I know it sounds ideal to do so in a relationship, but it does NOT help build rapport. Girls want you to open up to them so that they know whether or not they should dump you, not because they want to help you out.

Don't get to caught up in emotional moments, there is always a chance that you will end up revealing to much and regret it later. Maintaining mystery is critical to attraction. She WANTS to use her imagination to spark her own interest in you.

Always remember that No girl friend is better than Any girlfriend. Don't be so down about being single, most AFCs can never develop themselves fully because they delude themselves into thinking they have game because they are in a half-as5 relationship.

Most importantly, you say that "this girl is different," you must realize that if you adopt a scarcity mentality, you WILL develop latent Oneitis. Girls are extremely adept at sensing desperation, it kills attraction like crazy which would explain the decline in romance.

If she does not feel a competitive social anxiety to seduce you, there be no drive for romance or sexual marathons. If she's not afraid that some other girl wants you and is willing to snatch you away, her interest level will plateau and her passion will die out. There is nothing more ego-gratifying for a woman than to know her boyfriend is wanted by other women.

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