Brief story: We are on vacations far away from each other we dont see eachother in 10 days, she ask me to go to her house and party new year eve with her I told it was a good ideia but soon dimiss because, I was going to spend with her and with her friends., And i have my friends so i wouldnt do that was going to spend with my friends , bros first. She didnt like the ideia but accept but i think she got mad.


I called to my girlfriend house, she was busy at time doing some stuff she didnt tell me, she ask me to wait, she told me when she finish doing her thing she would called me. Well 4 hours passed and she didnt tell me nothing i was worry since isnt normal behavior so i sent her txt asking if was everthing ok no response, so I start calling her house she didnt respond, I thought she was asleep but after waiting a little bit, I call her cellphone she asnwer me in a fucking party with an excuse " sorry but i didnt have money on the cellphone so i couldnt respond and was in friends party who were leaving to london an then ask me if everthing was ok" I tried to be unreactive and said goodbye to her.

- First she didnt told me she was going to a party! she always like to know where am I and shit
- Second she told me was going to call me in a few minutes.
- Third today the text are free to send she could ask a friend to use the cellphone to send me a stupid txt.
- Why not tell me about the party?
- If it was me she would be pissed has hell.

Am I overeacting, well im feel a bit stupid i was thinking she was at home at when i call her she is in a party with loud music. I dont like telling things like that, being unreactive that what i lean in pua and showing i dont care but this really fucked my head. no respect in my opionion.

Personally I think her not telling you about the party was revenge or some pit up anger that you back out of her new years party. You never know if she wanted you to met her friends or she said you were coming and it made her look a little bad. Also I think your expecting much for her to go out and get here friends phone for the sole reason to send you a text.