ok so met a stripper in a night club, i wasnt into picking her up i went in looking for photography work, was cocky and funny anyway

in a pre meeting im cocky and funny

in another pre meeting im cocky and funny again

then day of shoot she is all over me, end up at hers having sex, after which she states that she isn't inerested in anything long term and i say the opposite (which i shouldn't thinking back)

meet up another 3 times to have sex over weekends

we meet up after this (i need to film her doing some stuff - lol no details will given on this), we leave kiss each other and its just kinda feels wierd when she goes to see her friends.

A day after this i call her and say i like the way things are and that id like to see other women, she says she ok with this, then that night she calls me at 11.30 - im cocky funny again then i ask why she is calling me, "i just wanted to see how you are"

i then organise a time when i can take her photo - need to create some art work, this will be the 3rd meeting in about 8 days, she is polite how ever not giving me hugs and stuff like usual then again she is cooking and we're both in a hurry.

i walk her to the train station we both need to go there, and then she doesn't kiss on the lips and turns so i kiss her on the cheek.



i think that im some how loosing power and that i should now leave her alone and let her come back to me, we have a shoot together soon, im guessing that i have met her too many times recently and its only been about a month so not very long.

is this the right course of action to take is there anything else i should be doing?

Very intereting post.

What you should be doing is leaving her alone while you're not too deep.

I can see you developing a serious-case of ONE'itis.

Get out while you can bro'(lol).

It was great while it lasted-the thrill of f-closing a stripper.

You did it,now leave.

She's loosing interest 'cause as she told you,she's not looking anything long term.

That should be our mentality also,but some how,you're looking to keep her interested.

Forget it and just leave it alone.

Just contact her every now and then,then it will fade.

You get too envolved with an exotic dance,it wont be pretty for you.

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"What you should be doing is leaving her alone while you're not too deep."

Im guessing that asking her why she didn't kiss me on the lips would push her away, how long do you think i should leave it till i get in touch with her other than wishing her a merry xmass - xmass day ?


"I can see you developing a serious-case of ONE'itis."

the thing is how do you get away from this when you actually do want to have a gf i mean i have been able to pick the girl i want, and i would love to keep this one, just because of her looks, but its more her really.


"It was great while it lasted-the thrill of f-closing a stripper."

her being a stripper never really had much of an impact on me, as im looking for something that will last rather than a quick F (which was nice anyway but kinds felt empty) like my mum always said sex with out love is just a physical act : )


"She's loosing interest 'cause as she told you,she's not looking anything long term."

the thing is althought she says that, there was a moment when she said that she did want things to "last a long time" when i said iv always been an adult when i have broken up with the girl and always stayed friends and that is how it would be bnetween me and her

"That should be our mentality also,but some how,you're looking to keep her interested."

"You get too envolved with an exotic dance,it wont be pretty for you."

could you expand on the last bit you wrote please
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