Ive read repeatidley that the best way to start a possible LTR is to take a girl to bed asap. Ive notcied though that if you bang a girl the same night you meet her a lot of times they will drag there feet when trying for a day 2. I'm good in bed so its not that. Pretty sure that they feel like a slut for going home with a guy so quick so you actually remind them of being a slut so they avoid you.

That said, whats the best way to LTR's?

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~Carmo~

I believe a strong sex life is the recipe for a strong LTR but same night lays aren't necessarily the same thing. Honestly, I wouldn't SNL a girl that I ever thought would be relationship material. A girl that I want for a long term deal I'd rather make her work for it. Flake on her, dont return her calls, you know all that good stuff.

SNL's, to me, are all about the sex. Now, there have been situations where me and the girl had a funny or sexy story of how we hooked up and we kept in contact, always referring about that night. There is a certain lusty bond between you and the girl you hook up with, but that's irrelevant to whether she's relationship material or not. You can start great fuck buddy relationship with SNL girls and if you get to know her and want to take it further, that's your own deal. Obviously you're gonna have a stronger more lasting impact drilling her the night you met her compared to buying her a drink and drooling over her the first night that creates that certain animal attraction. Dont base a relationship on that though, because you know nothing about SNL's and whether their even worth it for more than just pump and dump.

Why worry about LTR's anyway man? If you can pick bitches up for SNL's than why hinder yourself by tying down to one broad? All those good times will go out the window :