Sorry if long, I have been seeing a girl for about 3 months we are both in college our last year, we had two fights, one over guys she use to be with and the other over girls talking about me and how I am a player and everyone else is in my business telling her what Ive been doing.

To cut it short we broke it off once and got back together last week.Yesterday I am at a bar and she shows up I say hi we hug and she goes to get a drink. I keep my distance from her but i know she is watching me.

She starts to leave the bar and I stop her to say bye we kiss and she tells me she has to let the dogs out since she is dog watching someones dogs. She has been drinking as well so I say text me when you get home safe.

1:25 in the morning text goes something like this.

HB: Hey Babe you are a really great guy but I don't think you and I are going to work. All of a sudden I have a lot of things going on. And I think you and I need some space.I don't want to lead you on, I am sorry...

I text back at 1:30

Me. Look I am not the one to break up through a text. Lets me in person

No text back

So I would like a response from anyone so I know how to go about this when I see her in person. To me it sounds like she wants to have her fun, since this is her last year and mine. This is really my first relationship since I could never trust anyone seeing as girls do the same as guys. Flirt and have sex.

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Just Like Chess I know the Rules-- And I bet I Checkmate her in like 4 moves--Trey Songz
Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

The thing is hobbit I know what's going on with her, she thinking about the future, before she brought up if I will graduate on time, she also said she was afraid to get in a relationship since her last boyfriend. And to make it short I erased her number so there will be no initiating a conversation on my part through via phone

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Just Like Chess I know the Rules-- And I bet I Checkmate her in like 4 moves--Trey Songz
Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

Overlooking the stupid fights you had(or rather,the stupid reasons for fighting) one line makes me very sure of something I won't go any deeper.Stop playing games in relationships,they always end bad.

The reason I was keeping my distance is because she showed up with her co-workers and I wasn't going to be clingy and ruin her fun with them.

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Just Like Chess I know the Rules-- And I bet I Checkmate her in like 4 moves--Trey Songz
Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

leave it a week and then speak to her. keep it casual , a simple " how have you been doing " sort of thing will suffice. chances are if she has strong feeling for you shell be a state so you can use that to show her that your " ment to be together " or some shit.

just out of interest why do you want her back ? she acted like a child and didnt have the integrity to do it in person. is it because shes your first ? are you in love ? is this just oneitis ?

on this forum you have the material to make yourself attract amazing women. besides youre only young maybe shes right ? maybe you should just go about fucking everything in sight.

just somethign to think about. hope you get the result you want though man.

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Sounds tough,

There is a story in here that you can really benefit from. The valley post.

http://trustyourlifejourney.blogspot.com/