| Girls like that need alot of reassurance and she will constantly needs that so you need to brake that im no expert but I would tell something like that.
That break will be horrible for her, she will be MORE insecure and will only play for your disadvantage because she will have time to create some stupid ideias in her head and since her girlfriends dont like very much they will only feed the monster in her head and will become much bigger.
If you asked for a break because of your other thread(stalking girl), and you tell that was the reason than its valid, you need to tell her that behaviour is sick and not healhy and the break is need it and tell her your will not tolerate this kind of behaviour. You have your friends and you will have girlfriends and she also has malefriends so just get over it we both adult. I trust you so do the same. are you going to respond to the flirts of other men? No? good i will do the same as long as you behave like that you dont need to worry.
Ask her plain right if she trust you or not. if she says not you need to ask her wtf is she doing with you. Because relationship are build on trust and she is doing the oposite. Besides tell her that she cant control you all the time so she got only one option TRUSTING YOU, if not this relationship will not work.Stalking will not be a 100% method and she need to know this, and will only destroy the relantioship, she wont like also if you did that. And ask her if she believe with her behavior she will be capable to keep you in check ofc not. try to reason with her
Tell her Im in relantioship with you, if i wanted another girl i would be with them, but i choose you so dont be stupid and dont blow this. I like you, who cares if other girls flirty with me , there will be guys that will flirty with you. What sets you apparts from other girls that hit on me, everthing (you can tell her something that you really love about her a smile something that sets her apart) THAT WHY IM WITH YOU. And tell her also that confidence is a trait very sexy in a girl and you expect her to be like that . And in time , she will have her answer, but she need to behave
Be polite and nice to her girlfriends dont try and talk smack at any of them dont tell her plain that A B or C is flirting with you (i learn this the hard way, ), which they will do. she will eventually notice this and will start paying less atention to what they are saying. She will realize that girls are competitve and all want a piece of the action and they all wanna capture the big fish. but be carefull i had problems with some girlfriends of my ex, since of her friend became a good friend of mine but always try to mine our relantioship with lies and shit.
If she is a girl insecure about her looks, you need to tell her that beauty isnt all that matter ... like i said one my previous post.
If you guys get back together, dont flirty with other girls in front of her you know body language so just give that to the others. Introduce your girlfriend to some of the girls, if they are not you friend , just ignore or if your girl is standing there while a girl is being flirty grab her hand or pull in to you like you are saying this " my girl cant you see".
Final and tell her that you wont tolerate this insecurity if she has a problem she should tell you but dont overanalzye thing. But believe girls like that need alot of reasusrance and you will have to give that. are you prepared for that?
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