Well I cant full understand how should i behave in front of my exgirlfriend. We broke up and after 2 months she is like nothing happened, wanting to be my friend trying to continue our friendship but without dating and stuff like its the most natural thing ever. She knows I still like her i try to take that from her I use the no contact rule i never contact her when Im with her (which is rare) I dont give her much attention but i guess we have normal talks, but she usually calls me for coffes and shit with or without friends it depends i ussualy dodge them, but when she calls I am nice to her but NOT super nice but when she starts to chit chat about her day or whatever i try and cut the chat and say goodbye, but when I do that. she gets a bit frustrated and its like

Her:" Carlos if you dont want to be my friend because you stil love I fully understand"
Me: Dont be silly my world only doesnt revolve around you anymore.

I kinda said that if i had time for cofee this weekend i would call her. But my problems is, if i dont go she will think that its too painfull to be in her presence like friends but if i go she will know im giving too atention.So what should I do when im in her presence normal like any friend, should i ignore should i go for the cofees showing im not affected for her presence?

Why do you care if she gets frustrated? She's frustrating you, isn't she? Don't be unhappy so someone else can be happy! If you stop having contact, she is not going to think its because its too painful for you, she's going to think its because you've moved on and your world doesn't revolve around her.

Well I would like to get her back. but she is not center of my world im not devoting my life to get her back im also gaming other girls but I get bored easy with them and no one seem to grab my attention which sucks really hard. I would like to get her frustated a little bit so she knows she doesnt have all the power. In my Opinion she does this because she knows im in love with her and she wants me to continue chasing her so she feels good about herself.

Well I know you guys said I should leave my ex alone but. I need pro opinions here.

My ex called me yesterday for a cofee, she said she was bored at home and was waiting for friends of ours to go home but our friend was in another city with boyfriend doing this journey and was going to take a while, and i was little relunclty to go i usually decline her invitations but I told her I was going to a cofee to see the "big soccer game" and since she was just bored at home I would watch the game with her. She said ok(even though she hate soccer) , told her to pick me up at house of a girls friends.

When she pick me up she had makeup on lip gloss all that shit she was sexy. We reach the cofee I start watching game but i wasnt all interested because my team was getting a beatdown of a lifetime and i was bit mad and my ex was talking but I wasnt 100% focus she was getting a bit frustated and even complain that the game was more important than her, told her that was the deal. I saw that. when was i had my eyes on the tv screens she would put baton on twice or three times .
We had pleasant talk we even talk about she forgetting about my birthday she was bit ashmaded took my hand like we were dating or shit and ask my forgiveness I was totally cool with that I said that she didnt need to worry about that while i was refusing her kino . Afterwards our friend calls saying she was already at home , she said ok and asked me if i had already had dinner, I said no and she dragges me to the dinner like " Oh carlos is coming too" and i was like ok sure lets eat. Instead we leaving for our friends house right away we stay and chit chat a bit, but i was getting alot of txt of girls so she got a bid mad like she wasnt getting the attention she then says if you are still going to do that we can leave and i respond ok lets leave she then jumps of her seat and goes to pay the bill and doesnt say a word, like she is mad or whatever.

When we left for our friend house i was in the car with her she was bit nervous driving really bad not knowing where she was going and I asked how the fuck is she driving so bad and she is like " you know how to piss me off you"

When we reach our destination she starts treating like we were dating like the old days giving me food in my mouth i refuse everytime. Giving sexual innuends
and bumping into me deliberatly and saying I was the one doing that, her best friend was like " is there something happen here that you guys arent talking about"
Than something a bit strange happen, we were on the couch and she was trying to put her legs in my body but i wasnt letting after sometime we were watching tv she grabs my hand like when we were dating, she usted to did that when she wanted my attention so we would make out, she then realizes her mistake and gets bit embarrased like " oh shit he is not my boyfriend anymore". I see her best friend behind her open mouth like Wtf is going on?" she then gets up and goes with her best friend outside for a smoke. then after that she stop provoking so uch , but something really cool happen my ex had payed the dinner and i owed her money i said i didnt have money that she could search my wallet she does but instead of looking on the OBVIOUS PLACE NO she goes where a condom is hidding she looks at that a bit shocked and throws to the floor. After that we didnt talk much more they were more entertained watching a tv show.

Then we left she didnt say much more on the car we talk very little, when she leaves at my door I playfull go for her like i was going to give her kiss and she is like "carlos" and i was like my two kisses? on the cheek she didnt want to give me for some reason she refuse twice and i was like ok bye girl give her the middle finger while i was laughing

Cant udnerstand this girl she said she only wants to be my friend she said she didnt feel anything for me I know for the fact she isnt the type of girl to have fuck buddy. So do i have shot with this girl think im going to freeze out this girl is this girl playing me?

I have to say mate. I love how your handling this. Acting as if she blew it and lost the best thing ever to happen to her.

KUDOS to you

I think i handle this bad. dont know how to handle this on the future? THis girl playing me? what should I dO?

Dude I split up with my ex couple months back to. Trust me it'll be the worst thing you'll ever do, Yeah I do still love my Ex to some point but the way I got over her was advice from friends and fellow PUA's. The best advice I got given to me was remove her from your life until your truly over her! I delete her phone number Facebook etc... Honestly after that I'm doing soo much better I've been meeting up with all minds of intresting women I've even got to like one of them a lot. Maybe you don't want to hear this but if you do get back with her it'll never be the same.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

Yeah i can do all that , and i can avoid coffees alone with her but she is on my social circle so what im going to change my social circle because of her? I wont go out because she is there avoiding is not a option, so i want to at least try and pick up her again. And I game other girls, always trying to get better in PUA