Well I ended the relationship this morning. I realized that my girlfriend had some self esteem issues that were causing our downfall from the beginning. There was no making her happy, she was perfectly content with being an emotional wreck all the time, and I, being an optimistic PUA, didn't feel that we were compatible. I really didn't think we were right for each other at the very beginning. We were both in it for the wrong reasons: we were both lonely and attracted to each other, instead of being together because we had a good connection, and had legitimate feelings for each other.

I could tell since a couple days ago that she might be losing interest. She wouldn't hardly talk to me anymore, and she would treat me like crap when we did talk. I decided this was a bad spot to be in, so I broke it off.

She is really upset now, and it is kind of hard on me too. Mainly because I get to go back to square one and find another HB. I won't miss her low self esteem, always depressed, doesn't want to be happy, whine and cry all day crap, though.

To the normal guy, this relationship would be a huge failure and he would cry and say all women are stupid, but from my perspective, the relationship wasn't a failure at all.

I learned so much from this relationship. For example, don't get into a relationship for the wrong reasons, make sure your personalities are compatible, and don't rush things are the main ones.

I plan to take what I learned from this, move on, and find me a woman who I really like, and who doesn't just like me because of the game I spit on her while we were talking.

mate sounds to me like youve done the right thing here .

sometimes its better to be selfish.

you have to be mean to be kind.

im actually going through the same thing at the moment but ive got to admit you seem to be taking it better than me lol.

good luck to you any way man , plenty more HB's waiting for a smooth guy to sweep them off there feet

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Seize the day

You may have more lessons ot learn if she comes back begging, or with a new attitude. Be ready for that. If you feel like "no" now, stick with that, it's normally the correct decidion.

Most guys just look at a lot of pain after that, with some huge regrets.

Good luck!

Hey man thumb up to you!

You have the courage to do the right thing for you and for her, i would say most other would not do it in fear of being lonely again.

All the best

Respect.

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~California Love~!