What are your thoughts? Is being in a commited relationship a more satisfying way of life than trying to find multiple women to have sex with? I just started allowing myself to have sex with women this year(I am 21), but now Im thinking a relationship may be the best way to go. I have never been in a real relationship, and would like some advice from some of you who have more experience here.

Its such a tough call man. I mean if you feel strongly about this girl, shes got a head on her shoulders and a future then go with it. I mean as much as anyone is in her to bed lots of girls, we all gotta settle down eventually. It depends on if u have to give up a life of gettin lots of random girls all the time or just get lucky once in a blue moon. Consistent sex is great and doin it wit the same person all the time really lets u explore ur kinky side and get practice with alot of different things.
Me myself am not a realtionship guy, but im sleepin wit 3 girls and got a bunch more lined up, so why wuld i give that up?
Its all a feel thing, if it feels right then go for it, but ur not a kid nemore, so if ur in this for the long haul, b read to b in it for the really long haul

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i think being in a commited relationship can be more satisfying than dealing multiple girls provided that you and the girl are compatible. the sad reality is most guys in your position jump into relationships just for consistant sex. and since these guys are inexperienced, they will go for "plane janes", and end up regretting it. i say learn some game, work on yourself (mentally, financially) and get some hobbies that require you to leave the house for a bit. as for the women, figure out what you like in a woman both physically and in temprament...go out there and test the waters and screen out the ones who do fit your standards.

When I asked myself this question I thought:

First I want to train my pick-up skills to perfection(~). This will allow you to get the highest quality girl, and will teach you how to keep her. You can't practice pick-up while in a committed relationship, so I'd say first develop your social / seduction skills to the top, then look for a committed relationship. (If you want to try something like an LTR, maybe you can look for an open relationship?).

-ZeroValley