I want to continue in my PUA advetures but want to end my relationship of 8 months. She is absolutely in love with me I can tell. She wants to marry me and have kids and the whole thing! I don't want to hurt her but she's not right for me. She will be crushed for weeks I'm sure and I will feel terrible especially since I've done everything to win her heart. The reason I want to leave is because I think there is a lot to learn from PUA stuff, more than fucking some chicks, like leadership and character and psycological chemistry that can't be learned in college. I want to be part of the growing community but not at her expense. Let me know.....

Tell her what you think/feel. If she loves you, she will respect this.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

If you aren't happy with her and she isn't right for you, then leave.

Its not fair on her if you stay with her because you feel guilty about hurting her but you don't really feel anything for her. I have done this to guys - I have stayed with them because they have wanted me so badly and I felt bad breaking up with them, but I had really lost all attraction for them and then had to put myself through the painful task of acting like I wanted to hang out with them and kiss them when it disgusted me.

If you stay with her without the feelings, you will probably end up cheating on her and that will hurt her even more.

How to break up with her? Tell her you really care about her and she is a great girl but you just feel that you are too young to settle down with her. Say it's going to hurt you both now but in the long run, it will be worth it. Tell her she will find the guy who treats her the way she deserves to be treated and that you wish you were that guy but you just can't be and she deserves better than what you can offer. You will hurt her by breaking up with her but I believe it's better to hurt her now when she can get over it and possibly be friends with you one day rather than for you to betray her by cheating on her or something like that which will hurt her a whole lot more.

Just be honest and good luck!

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....