heres my situation
i am in a relationship with a girl for over 4 months (she is 20 and its her 2nd real relationship, i am 19 and my 1st real) we were classmates but last some months on this school somehow we become closer to eachother and fall in love.
in 1 month we are going to the same university and we will be classmates again

but my problem is:
everytime we argue with each other (she is also very ironic and tells me things that normally she wouldnt) i come out as a stupid one even if i know its not just my fault and if we argue she tells me things like "we can be friends even after we break up, you dont have to be scared that i wont speak with you or hate you" after this i always told her to not break up with me and apologized and now i really have enough of this that everytime it is just my fault so i was thinking how to change this since just speaking with her about this wont help


my idea was:
tommorow find a good place (her home) where i remind her good the good times with me how we were happy and so and then tell her "sorry (her name) but it cant continue like this i really love you and had good times with you but look this is my 1st relationship and i am doing mystakes and if you cant accept them and we have to argue over them everytime it will be better to break up you can find/deserve someone better and i dont be barrier in your life i wish you a good luck in life bye" and then just walk away from her room/home

i am scared if i tell her this and we still stay together she wont love me anymore
or it can make our relationship stronger?

but how should i react if
1) she stops me and tell me to not go /// how to react after this?
2) she lets me go and some days after she messages me how she loves me she wants me back and so
3) she wont care (but then we will meet almost everyday since we will be classmates) :/

i dont want to loose her cause she is cool/beatiful girl doesnt smoke,drink,party etc


any help appreciated

Do not allow yourself to be put in the frame of the guilty when you know it's not the case.Because when you do,you approve your guild.That's what it means when you apologize.
How would I have reacted ?
Argue to the end of it.But BE out of that "guilty" frame.Also since it is not a such long relationship,you don't have to be 100% open(that is very much up to you two).If she wants to break up with you,let her.Seems your reactive reactions are regretted now.
If you're so sure,dump her.Don't "argue" and don't be put again in that frame of guilt(she may try).Tell her the reasons fast and leave.Or text her,better.


1) You don't wait for a response.
2) Up to you,i very much doubt she changed in a couple of days.If you want you can give her another chance.
3) Very good,means she never cared