It's like this: I've know this girl for 4 years we met in Covent garden one night and I was on such a high to have number closed her! Day 2 I kissed her and a week or two later we had the best sex ever!! we get on well despite the culture difference (she's south Korean) but have regular fights which we can usually fix, she is sweet and we really care about each other.
We have since broken up 3 times and each time got back together the last time we broke up I saw her out with a guy and went on a spree and shagged anything that moved...but later we made up as she swore she hadn't done anything,.

The thing is I see a future for us but I am pining after so many girls and feel like a total AFC for not following through..a few weeks ago I got it on with this Japanese chick and felt no regrets the next day. So I just decided there and then that life is too short and I should just hook up as much as possible and try not to get caught out..

Am I out of order?

It sounds like you have to get the rice-chasing out of your system bro.

In college I would hook-up with any Asian girl who came my way, and I ended up dating one on-and-off for years and years. It took me a while to realize I really loved her, partially because she came out of a phase of my life where I was only looking to bang Korean girls, and she happened to be available. Once I got past that I realized she was a really special person. Don't know if that's the case for you now, but maybe it will be in the future.

I think AFC Adam put it best in a YouTube video called "Should I Leave the Game?" The answer is: only after you've done everything you've wanted to. If you still want to hook up with more girls, you should, until you get tired of that. Then settle into something exclusive.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

I reckon you should get it all out of your system. It doesn't seem like you are ready to be in a serious relationship with her just yet. Even though you see a "future" with her, the timing is just wrong right now. If you were to get serious with her now and stay together forever, you would probably get bored and/or resent her or yourself for not chasing other girls when you had the chance and will probably cheat on her because you feel like you are missing out. It would be better to hurt her a little bit now rather than hurt her much more in the future when you could perhaps be married or there could even be children involved.

If you leave her now and have your "game time", it can't be guarenteed that she will take you back when you are ready to settle down but if it's meant to be, it will be.

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....