This girl I like likes me, but when I ask her out, she says "No."

So how can I get her to say yes when I ask her out?

Thanks in advance !

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"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

is this serious???

im rather confused, you have 1 vote and 200 odd posts... So im gonna take this as a joke?

If she truly liked you, she would accept the date.

You've given absolutely minimal information, so I'll just say this:

By the looks of it, you've asked her out way too much. Start interacting and talking to other girls and just stop paying so much attention to her for a while (maybe a few weeks, idk).

If you have any kind of regular interactions with this girl - she will notice that you have other girls in your life. This will trigger a bit of interest (if there's any left).

... And don't ask her out again, in a while. Wait a few weeks, do other shit in your life and don't chase her anymore. You gotta turn the tables.

Hey,

Sorry guys, I should have provided more information.

Well.

I asked out once before. She told me "She can't"

Times later I asked her out the wrong way "Hey, see ya at ______. My friend wants to see you" .

Month later: "Yes planning is difficult especially when things are so indirect. Planning for an awesome date won't be hard for me. If you like"

Recently " go out with me?"

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

You put way to much pressure n emphasis on the whole "go out with me" thing.

Try be more relaxed n dont make it such a DATE thing.

Don't make a big deal out of this.

If you talk to her frequently and she's your friend, surely you must have some common interests?

For example, a movie that you both like or want to watch at the cinema?

"Hey, we should totally go watch that movie we talked about."

Of course, it doesn't have to be a movie, but any kind of common interests that you have.

Give her a reason to go out with you. Don't just say "go out with me?" in the future.

Good luck.

I see . Thanks !

I have to be more chilled. I did that before, and I got rejected once by her.

Because of this, and I am asking the same girl out again, I feel this pressure. I guess I shouldn't be right?

No point in "making asking her out a big deal" .

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Go out with you sounds so needy and well... AFC.

Just say 'want to go get a drink in town?' or do something fun. No need to be a date.

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hey man, just made a similar mistake.. and you like me are in damage control with this girl.

The best thing you can do is go find someone else.. there's not enough attraction built with this girl... its hard to accept it but it is what it is.

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[quote="Little Panda""Hey, we should totally go watch that movie we talked about."
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This is a good one, but if you feel too uncomfortable you can always change it a bit with :- "me and a mate are gonna go watch that movie we spoke about! you should totally come along with us, and bring a friend if you like!!"

I did this with a mate and it made things a whole lot more relaxed, although we went to a theme park so it was more of a 9hourish thing, so i dunno..

I did that LOL.

"Hey me and my friends are planning to go out today. I want you to come along. Bring ____. Meet me at _____. Then later, I will take you to eat and watch a movie. And we ll decide what to do for the rest of the evening.

Response:

It's ok.

Yeah, I think she is not really into me. Either that or she is just immature. I think telling her my friends will come along when she knows nothing about my friends gave her pressure.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Hey no offence, I'm going to be really blunt but.... I don't think she likes you. If you have asked her out that many times and she never says yes, then just move on and find someone who does like you. You cannot force someone to like you just because you like them.

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

I would normally think that is the case. But somehow my heart is telling me something otherwise. i get this unnatural vibe when she says it.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Ask her about it then.... Because from what you have written and from what I have to go on, it seems like she isn't interested. Maybe if she had said no once but then said yes, I would think she is playing a little hard to get. But the fact that you have asked her out several times in different ways and she always denies you means that for some reason she does not want to go out with you. Maybe she does like you but has had a bad past experience or she has a boyfriend or soemthing I don't know. Maybe leave her alone and if she wants you, she will come after you.

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