hey everybody

I have a girlfriend for 2 weeks now.

Now i am testing the ' Bad Boy' Style against her.

She wants to make me jealous with her friends who is at love at her.
And i just do badboy reaction like:

Ok go fck him
give him a blowjob, be a nasty b!tch , do it
suck him, kiss him, lower your respect to a b!tch or whore :p

and many many more.

And at her answers i just NEG( i give her nicknames she doenst like, or doing very bad bad boy answers against her.)
She said already: omg you are are very difficult :s ......


The first week i was very very nice guy and insecured because she wanted to make me jealous about her friends who she is going to date with and like that...
i did very jealous reactions like: do you love me or is he better than me or ....


Now i'm doing the bad boy hard to get style, she has to admire me, she has to be happy she got me.


Is this a good idea of style?

Thanks

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Sounds okay, but the real answer is how she is reacting. How is she reacting?

it's difficult, in real live we love each other and kissing and kissing and blablabla

On msn and text messenging we are challenging each other very much. Sometimes she gets mad, sometimes i get bad( the first week), but now i am playing with her, i am a challenge for her :p

On msn and text messages: She reacts like she can't win over me, like:
' Stop, omg, don't call me that, Don't do that, i ignore you, Phu you are mean, ........' And than she talks about her friend who is at love at her ....

and i :

' finnanly you shut up, i call you what i want to call you, i don't listen to you so i say whatever i want, Shut up XXX( a nickname she hates xD) , I go tonight to party they maybe gonna seduce me so you don't have to come with me because i don't want you to hold my hands :p , Are you mad i hope you are mad because i love the fear of my opponement , 5-0 you are losing loser , ...........'

Sooooo i'm challenging her now that i am hard to get and bad :p




(sorry for the bad english xD)

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Hmmmm not a good idea in my opinion. I used to be known as a bad boy, and it wasn't by saying things like that.


It was more like not answering all her calls, not calling back when I said I would, being mysterious, her wondering where I am and what I'm up to.

What's the point of neging once you are in a relation? I don't get that at all. I tease my GF all the time, that is good. Some good hearted tease, playfully delivered does wonder on everyone. Saying "suck him, kiss him, lower your respect to a b!tch or whore :p " basicaly treating her like dirt will not make a good fondation for a good relationship.

Now if she tries to make you jaleous, there is many ways to go about this, but treating her like dirt is not one I would do or recomend to anyone.

Bad boy, what's that cliche again?... yeah, everygirl wants to fuck a badboy but none of them want to take him home. What do you want from this girl? A bang, or take her home?

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ow ok ...

I just want to maintain relationship. But i said in the first week that i am very uncomfortable that she always mention her friend who is at love at her. And she really send text messages to my face.

Sooo she tries to make me jealous and i don't want to give her jealous reactions( lack of confidence)
So what do i have to do than for answering her anwers?

If she sends like: i go with him to cinema, he gives me hugs, he is fun, we made a game and he has to give me , he send me this sweet poem, ......


so what i have to do at such type of girl like her ...?

thank you


( It's first time i get such a type like her as girlfirend, i'm not used to it :p
i know i make mistake or experiment sometimes, but i want to learn about it )

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Dont be somthing your not...dont try to be a "bad boy" if thats not you. Be your self but have balls.

Be your self but be a man and stand up for your self and what you beleve in...that is what women want not a bad boy. Bad boys are the ones that women most often cheat on because they are shitty bf's and dont give their gf's what she needs! learn to be comfotable in your own skin and to stand up for your self, and you will master being a pua.

I liken beingh a pua to sports:

If you are 6"4 330lbs does the coach make you a wide reciver? no he makes you a deffensive line men and he teaches you how to work with the abilties that you were given...he doesnt try to make you somthing you are not naturaly and will never be.

The pua game is the same! be the best you can be with what you are given and be better than anyone eles at it! that is how you become a good pua!

Alot of guys try to hard to be somthing they arnt and alway stay amature.

owwww ok
i understand
i will just talk with her again in real live ( tonight i go to party with her and friends ) that i feel uncomfortable with that one guy who is at love at her.
Just say my honest feelings about our realationship how i feel.
And hopely she will understand it?
is that the best ?

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Your right, that's why PUA become good with natural game, because they develop theirselves from within. They add little things to their lives. Not be something they're not.

Back on topic, stand up for yourself, tease her aswell, If my girl was saying all that to me, I'd tell her exactly where to go .

I understand now, i will just be myself now.

But what if she sends later in the future again text messaging or msn like:
- He send me again a poem, he wants to kiss me, he loves me, i am going with him on date/movies, .......


what do i have to do or say?
Just say my honestley feeling about it ?

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Ask yourself, why is this girl saying all this? To me she's teasing you, shit testing you, and maybe taking you for a fool.

You can ignore her for a while. Or when she says she is going out with him, let her know your going out too, and say enjoy your night.

Trust me, this kind of girl isn't someone for the long term, because if she is into you, she has a lot of growing up to do.

but in real live she likes a good girl and not a 'Bad' girl.

She is 16 so yeah maybe she needs to grow up.

But i will see with her, how it is going in the future.

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Honestly man shes a highschool girl...shes not mature enouph to have a serious relationship. IMO there is no point in having a relationship in highschool....atleast not a hard core LTR.

highschool is a good time to find your self, explore and learn! dont get caught up on one girl just have fun! when I was in highschool I was a pussy....at total afc and I regret geting hung up on one women because at the time I was to naive and young to see that it was just highschool and I was just a kid! I was young, good looking and I didnt take advantage of it...what happend? I took advantage of it in college like crazy! learned how to work with what I had and picked up like mad! learned how to read and understand women like a book and now I have a beaufitul gf who I love!

Just enjoy life and have fun! I think relationships should be banded for people under that age of 18 haha so that guys can focus on having fun and learning how to pick up.

You are getting good advice here from other members here. I'll re-inforce what the other guys said. Be yourself, or more likely, be your better self. Be self confident about your self. You have a lot to offer to this girl (or any girl that you chose to be with). She risk loosing this if she mistreats you. Stand up for yourself and don't let what other people do shake your beliefs.

One way to deal with this would be to have this discussion you are talking about. Tell her that you are unconfortable with the way she is behaving. You don't mind her seing them but she need to know that she is in a relation with you and that she sould act accordingly. If she doesn't, you walk out. Be ready for this. Your bark has to have bite. If she won't respect you she is not someone you want to build a relationship with. That being said, for her to respect you, YOU have to respect yourself fisrt. Make sure you do that.

Good luck buddy!

Btw, this is a great attitude. This will get you further then most advice you recieve and read anywhere.

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Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream