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So the idea I understand from this is that you shouldn't fall into an extreme or the other extreme
Exactly right. Nothing in a relationship should be done to exztremes because this is what will cause problems within the relationship and could lead to the breaking up of it.
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Let's say that because of many situations involved in your relationship
your girlfriend, comes to this conclusion "everything I do is not enough for you".
If your girlfriend comes to the conclusion that nothing she does is enough for you, she will feel like a lower class citizen and demoralized due to the lack of respect and effort you demonstrate towards her and your relationship.
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Is this going to make her more attracted to you and the realtionship better(you are the prize, she has to work for you etc.)?
I don't believe it will make her see you as the prize or make your relationship better. I believe it will make her see you as an overbearing and hard to please wanker and she will probably decide she can't take it anymore. She will feel like she can't make you happy so what's the point in being together. She will probably start resenting you which is unhealthy in relationships.
Anyway hope this helps a bit...