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How to get even with my ex girlfriend??

I have always been there for her. I loved her SO MUCH I swear to God. I know afc, but I was pua with her as well. I was very good for her.
Then I started neglecting her a little because I didnt feel like she loved me as much as she used to and I started getting a crush on someone else at college.

My ex gf started using me and I got mad at her for doing so, and I told her if she wanted someone to do something for her that she could call that guy at the gym (whom she started to hang out with more in the weekends).

Then she dumped me for some guy she sees in the gym 2 times a week. At first I was cool with it, but she was still in doubt so she let me know she wanted me back. Because it was tearing me up inside as well, I agreed and I saw her as fast as I could, which was in about 3 days. 2 days went passed and I didnt hear anything from her and thought that was strange, so I called her in the night and it turned out she was out partying with her slutty friends. that next day, I came to see her and I felt shit was not good. And she told me she just wanted to be friends. lol fuck. So I went home, it hadnt really hit me yet.

Then I wanted her back. So I called her later that day, asking if she would want to come over, not to make up or anything I just wanted to see her. But she said "she would let me know" (lol I have always been there for her if she needed me)

then that night I called her again, I had cried, she could tell. I asked her if she was sure and she replied harsh and cold: "Yeah of course! I just dont want a relationship! At least not with you!!"
Thats when I was out to get revenge. After all I had done for her, this was what I could get back?
I looked up a pua book about getting your ex back. I did the no contact rule, it worked! She came back a little but I screwed up by acting desperate and needy again.
I kinda broke down at that point cuz I realized I was about to lose her forever.

Then I was a total sissy and went to her place with something I still had from her to bring it. I just wanted things to be back to normal and have dinner with her. She didnt want that.
Then after her dinner I nearly begged her to see her again. My whole posture, my voice everything was all afc. She even mentioned it that I looked like a wreck.
I went to her room and sat down on her bed, looking around in her room. All the pictures of "us" were removed. She came sitting in front of me and we talked some. I told her I was so afraid she was gonna have sex with someone else, and that I would really not like that. That I was happy with the freedom she has now, but if she please not has sex with someone else. This moment was really nice because she reassured me that she just needed space and there was no way she would wanna have sex with somebody else. But she also said that it COULD happen.
and I felt SO relieved! SO relieved! I was so happy, I just hugged her and I was so happy.
then I went home, told her I was happy she had freedom and if she ever needed me I would be there for her.

Then I found out through a common friend that she went to the bar alone that night and got herself a one nighter OMFG
My heart shattered!

I sent her an email a few days after, asking her again please dont have sex with anyone. Cuz I dont think I can cope with that.
She went so FURIOUS she went to my dorm and nearly kicked my door in. She wanted all of her stuff back right now and leave.

at first i laughed about it cuz I had hit a weak spot. but I also thought of her as a skank

but here I am, 4 months after our break up. 2 months after our last contact. and I am still heartbroken. And now she has got a relationship with the guy at the gym. who is having sex with her while im here heartbroken and sexless.

there are a few girls I could have sex with but they are all either fat, or a slut. and I dont really feel comfortable arround other girls. I dunno why, my ex gf was just so amazing and hot and smart and beautiful and feminine.
There is another girl who I could get a relationship with, she is okay but she is a little weird

but most of all, i really miss my ex girlfriend! I have cried just yet, 4 months after our break up! still crying about her!
I still feel heartache

what can I do ?


She was mean, a slut, she broke my heart.

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

the best way to get even is to make a better life for yourself. i've been in your place before, and i know the emotions, but fork. neck. road.

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I also want to add that I dont really know what to do

Should I fight for my gf? and try to get her back?

Or should i keep the no contact thing up and get her back in a few months after she may have broke up with him?


I loved her so much, not just sex

but she dumped me cuz i lacked skills in bed and she wanted to know what else is out there. i feel like such a loser

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

I've been in a very similar situation and let me tell you first hand that trying to get back with a girl who dumps you, will only end up in more heart break. Back when I was AFC, I got back together with my GF 3 times before I said enough is enough. She would break up with me, then come running back a few days later, say she loves me and that she's sorry.

I loved her like crazy, but I built a new world without her. I redefined myself and realised there are so many girls out there who I could love even more and who wouldn't dick me around. I didn't deserve that, I bent over backwards for her. Don't get my wrong, I was very very messed up after the breakup, until I started getting into PUA and refining myself as the person I wanted to be. We were living together and I thought our lives were going to be TOGETHER. I'm now with a girl I love even more and am no longer AFC.

You need to feel the pain and accept it. It's over. It hurts so bad, I know man and you only want HER right now but you need to try to move forward. Have the mindset that you can attract any babe you so desire and learn the skills to make it happen.

This girl isn't worth it, no matter how much you love her. Your life will go on and you will stop hurting eventually