I've been dating my current GF for a few months and it's starting to become a problem that a few of her friends don't like me, why they don't like me... I think they're just bitter man hating bitches (a couple are legit lesbians). I need to figure out how to disarm them when they're around, because I know from some recent conversations with my GF that they've been chirping in her ear trying to cause problems in our relationship.

She has the friends over frequently and they all talk amongst themselves, my GF wants me to socialize (so that her friends will approve of me I guess), but the shit they talk about is all 100% female speak, I am totally lost, how do I re-frame the conversation or at least appear sociable while actually doing nothing?

Also, when they all go out, my girlfriend tries to bring me along, but the same shit happens, they all socialize and if my girlfriend breaks away to spend time with me, she gets an earful from her bitch friends when she comes back.

NEVER feel like you need to qualify yourself in front of anyone, ever. And what these girls say to her ear is irrelevant. Your an Alpha, confident, and you don't care what other people say about you. Build your social proof (get the career of your dreams, torn physique, etc) and you'll get respect no matter what.

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qualify yourself is pointless and make you look afc and desperate so no you dont want to do that but what you should do is try to realate a little better.

When I hang out with my gf and her friends I just act like Im one of the girl...as gay as that might sound and I give them my male perspective on a situation. When they talk about guys I jump right in and get into the convo, when they talk about clothing I do the same...you just have to act like your their gay friend and not worry about looking like an idot lol

Example:

Women: Robert Pattinson is so hot!

You: I dont get it why do you girls find him so hot? is it the whole mysterious vampire thing?

Women: Yeah! hes so cool and sexy!

You: Yeah so he's kinda like the angelina jolie for women?

then go on to talk about all kinda of other girly shit...iduno just have fun and relax.

P.s go out and buy a cosmo and you will soon find out what women love to talk about! it will also give a good idea of how you can answere their questions.

thank you dark one! im like this naturaly but bit nervous bout a social situation im going to tonight n was risking acting "unnatural".

Ill take your words of wisdom with me!

Cheers buddy