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So, iv been seeing this girl, im starting to really like her. and she seems to like me and shes scared i will get with other girls, when i go on holiday next month... we text each other alot, alot of push and pull, alot of sex talk etc...
i wanna turn her into my gf, but im afraid if i start being "nice" and lovely she will get turned off....
How should i be towards her? what kinda things shud i do? shud i keep playing her?
I agree with Hobbit that it might be worthwhile to continue sarging, although on ther other side of the coin it might be nice to have a practice at a relationship if you feel like it.
If you do decide to give it a shot, remember that being in a relationship doesn't mean becoming a "nice guy". Balance is key to everything. Treat her how you wish and see how it goes, we all make major mistakes from time to time but that's fine so long as you learn from them!