Hi boys and girls.. Been a long time since i visited these forums.. I wanna get back on here..

Now im in a long distance relationship (aprox 1.500km / 1000 miles ) away. Yes it sucks. But we are both mature and its a very serious relationship so i want it to keep it going =)..

Now.. Thats not really the topic..

I'm gonna go visit her again the first of june, and gonna stay for 6 days. Her parents always let me sleep at her house and it's cool. But we are all very catholic - and so, sleeping in the same room is a no-no. My GF wants us to wait for sex after marriage, but we have tried mutual masturbation and its just > < great.

Problem is.. We did it like in the car at a parking lot in the back seat of her mothers car.. Then in the forest, then at night in some field.. And at the stairs outside of church (ups)... But we agreed that this is not the way to go..

Cause everytime we go out.. it's not just to have fun, but it's always to find a place to "do it". She said (and i agree) that it should be more calm, not done in a hurry and were people can catch us.. But i jsut have no idea where to go.. need help!

Any ideas are appriciated.. Btw cant probably borrow her mothers car again, so it needs to be somewhere else..


(PS: Once it went good, when we were on a couch, with the lights turned off and the parents were sleeping.. and she loved it. Cause she was more comfortable there.. but im looking for places outside the house, ty)

I was in the same position as you once. But me and my girl live fairly close. We do it when my parent are sleeping in the couch. We would do it when my parents are downstairs cooking or watching tv, we would just have quickies lol (exciting, but scary too, really fun). We would go drive out when we haven't seen each other in a while and purely for sex. We had a few talks about how we shouldn't be like that. But these talks would be after we finish doing it, or when were apart from each other, when the urges are not present. I'm sure you guys have the same talks at the same times, when the urges are gone. Then when you guys are with each other another time, the urges are strongly present. What I'm trying to say is you both have urges, everyone does, and it shouldn't be ignored and suppressed.

I suggest you talk to your girl about this issue. Personally, I don't think this should be a problem. You guys live so far away, that its hard to not have urges like that. You guys are clearly adventurous when it comes to sex. I think that's a good thing, it keeps the relationship spark and it keeps it exciting and fun.

If you don't want to take that into account, I'm sure you'll have no problem finding other places where you can do it. I mean c'mon, on the stairs outside a church? lol.

Cheers mate.

Ahaha yes, we had those talks..

And when we had the talk.. believe me, we took at huge step forward in our relationship, and she says she therefor regret nothing..

Yes it's true that it's so easy when you are 1500km away to say "oh we not gonna do it" but when you get over there, you change your mind..

We are both two "bombs of hormones" and so we will find a place.

But perhaps, something we can talk about here.. She brought up an intresting point. and it is that you get so egoistic in the relationship.. and she said it was not good for us..

Now think about that for a moment.. Actually it's right, always go out so i could find a spot where she could blow me, and she wanted to find a spot where i could go down on her..

Therefor i want a place or perhaps create the right SPAM, where we can just please each other ..

Im sure she loved the adventures as well.. But remember its mutual masturbation. And she is a virgin. So even in that aspect, it needs to be a place where she can be comfortable..

I realise this is a dumb thread, but i guess we could exchange ideas.

Also the thing about becoming egoistic is very very interesting - I dont want her to feel it like we are just pleasuring ourselves, but eachother.