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| wasab6 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 6:05 am | |
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Posts: 36 | | My girlfriend usually goes to bed, and give me a lot of love over chat ( ex : hearts love youu nighty night) .
For the last 2 weeks all she says is i think i might go to bed, and i give her Night bratt (L) usually or something along those lines, and she just signs off.
PS i know seek approval is afc, and i don't feel affected. Should i stop saying good night to her or what should i do, or is this a ok normal thing to happen?
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| OriginalPrankster | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 6:38 am | |
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Location: Florida | | Mystery would probably tell you to punish her back. So you stop telling her goodnight, but be aware that I am, as of now, a KJ only saying this because it sounds like the mindset Mystery would have.
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| Brendan | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 2:20 pm | |
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Location: Brisbane, Australia | | dont give her any more than she is giving you. if she doesnt say goodbye, you don't say goodbye.
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| Conker | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 8:32 pm | |
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Location: Brisbane, Australia | | Yes that is the right course of action. It will actually feel good to log off before she does.
It may be enough to turn her around again, but just keep an eye on your behaviours and interactions with her for anything else that might be turning her off.
This kind of behaviour is a very obvious loud sign of something. It could be the extra attention you're giving her in chat itself, or it could be something else entirely.
Generally you're not being a challenge, and you're in her face enough that she wants to just escape without warning.
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| The_Prophet | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 9:01 pm | |
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Location: Canada | | Early stage of Relationship: Play the 'game', don't give more than you get.
I've learnt from experience however that if you're in a longer Relationship, forget 'Game' and forget all those silly little details. There's a reason she's no longer saying Goodbye, something is wrong within the Relationship or with her. Work on finding that out, rather than playing a silly little game of who logs off first.
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| menace23x | PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 9:28 am | |
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Location: luton | | dude if that is bothering you,than it leads me to think your whole interaction has been lead by her,cause you saying thing with an outcome.
when you chat to a girl especially online..keep it simple and quick..don't invest so much of your relationship on the phone or online,it's important to use those as tools to set up when you gonna meet up,if you've spent time together,give space to miss you..
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| General Lamb | PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 12:28 pm | |
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Posts: 175 | | you probably give a lil too much attention in chat, try not to be on there so much and certainly stop saying goodbye, just disappear instead =)
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| BackpackJeff | PostPosted: Mon May 03, 2010 7:04 am | |
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Location: El Salvador | | How long you two been dating?
If it's only been a while, maybe don't go online and meet to chat at the normal time or tell her you're busy.
If it's been a longer relationship, ask her what's up.
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