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Hello all.
I am the kind of guy that gets bored in a relationship easily, and so is my girlfriend. I love her, and so does she, and I want to keep her. And no matter what, we'll have to innovate.
I was reading a phrase that goes like "To have something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done" ... So with this in mind, I was thinking, sometimes we have to get out of our comfort zone, and experience new experiences (duh?) ... sure, going to clubs is fun, going to the movies is "classic", going for dinner is almost a must, movie nights, etc... but assuming you're in your 20's to mid 20's ... a 25 year old attractive girl has probably had all this.. Gone to the movies, being invited to dinner, movie night at the boyfriends house etc...
You want to make a difference... do something that is different and that she doesn't expect it at all. Here are some examples I have done with my girlfriend.
I've known her since 1st semester of college, we're in 3rd now, just started dating a while ago. She's 25 and I'm 19 (20 in 2 months) ... Why is she with me, and not with someone that can give her more material pleassures? She's dated 30 year old guys ... and she had a rule to not date anyone more than 5 years younger than her.
Needless to say I've been the exception:
I told her one day, that I had a surprise for her, that if we could see each other at X Mall at 6:00 PM. I got a proyector, those that connect to the laptop, and prepared a "cinema" at my backyard, with a blanket on the grass, and another on the wall. I downloaded her favorite movie, and had it ready to be projected. I got her to the car and told her we we're going to my home, and put a blindfold on her. So when we got home I actually had her sit down, and just pressed play, she liked the idea, and when she saw it was her favorite movie she just went on me.
I took her horseback riding to a pond, and had a picnic there.
When we reached our first month as a couple, I got to school early, and put a red rose on her place, with a note saying her name only, I knew she would know it was me, since we both write the letter "a" in the same way. When I left the rose, I went to buy something to eat, just to make up for time while she got there... then when I got to school, she was talking to our friend and she saw me enter and she ran to hug me and said "I thought you were gonna forget!"
So, lets share some ideas here. What have you done... what would you like to do??
hey man !!!
you open a very good topic !!
you touched something very important.
if you guys want to have a good and longer relationship it's very important
do cool and various things....your girlfriend won't be bored
and there will be also less possibility to cheat on you.
this topic have to be much bigger....we must find more things to do.
i try to add something:
1)hang out with friends or other couple
(i know it sounds stupid but many people don't give enough important to this.
even if they do cool and various things they are always just with the girlfriend.
it's important to hang out with many people....sometimes even if you aren't doing
anything special it's cool to be with others...you can have fun without
spending money.)
2) go to the spa....relax...touching her in the water....will create suspance
and you will have great sex after that.
once i payed for a room with sauna and turkhish bath....we were alone and we
had sex inside....was cool
3) prepare some food at home....go in the countryside and have a pick-nick
is cool also if you do in the wood....prepare a blanket and find
an isolated place...i let you immagine what you can do there.
CHAT
DUH..