I had to write this because I was soo smithed by what I saw.

So I met this girl today who is looking for an apartment for her boyfriend. Within minutes she started talking about the guy with me and soon went into the story of how they met. They have been dating for 2 years or soo and it was soo sweet to see her blush and excited all the time that she was talking about her guy- Thats the kind of effect I want on my future wife someday.

He was sweet to her during the whole first semester but then never kept in touch. then in the second semester ran into her while she was eating all by herself. Since she was alone he gave her company and every Tuesday and Thursday he would skip class to give her company while she had her lunch. Both were dating other people at the time and a week after they broke off with their partners these two started dating.

While she was still a sophmore he would cook food for her and store it in zip logs in her refridgerator. They travelled together to Europe. Now every two weeks he flys down from CA to see her while she is getting done with school .... He is moving back in town for her to calm her nerves down while she is in her final year and to be together.

Everything that came out of the girl's mouth for her guy just lit up her face. It was like a romantic story from a book.

I sit back and think, wow thats something that I'd like to have but again I think I have already gone pas that vulnerability or too desentesied to do all those wonderful things for someone may be... Also, I'm well pass the teen and early 20s love struck age........Probably in another life, I'd have that

I hear ya Hobbit and right after I wrote it I felt that was the case. But this is post is all about the lovable couple who I wish the very best and a lot of love in their life. I truely hope that they be blessed with all the good things in their life and the spark never dies. The love that I saw in that girl for the guy is and the way she described their realtionship was sooo sweet and sounded innocent.

Thats how you read it, Not what it was intended to sound. Its about seeing something in a relationship that I appreciate- You'll understand someday.

How sweet if your GF says the same thing about your relationship ...Someones Bragging....
It shows the things that I Appreciate. But Instead of Profiling me and getting into a Psychoanalysis Trip why not stick to the story - a sweet tale that a fellow poster appreciates and is sharing with others in the forum. Besides is it Insecurity or too much knowledge that the need to analyse and drop 'wisdom' in everything is felt.

I say forget love. Love to me is dead. Love is validation of yourself through someone else and it really is just a chemical addiction like any other drug. If we didn't have the media shoving some idea of love down our throats men wouldn't be so far away from their true nature. Call me jaded, call me immature either way I'm just looking for sex. A relationship is just steady sex. Marriage to me is like the last possible thing I would want in the world.