Yeah i just got dumped aha. LTR for over a year ljbf'd me. Yes i afcd out for a couple of days, and ill miss her like fuck, we really pair bonded.

I have secretly booked a table for two at a fancy italian near me, so im taking her next sunday, then im treating it like a normal day 2 to give her a chance to take her actions back. Im ignoring her till then aha.

My emotions are fucking me up big time, although I know i will get over her, it feels like I never will. I fell like i was meant to be with this girl- i lost my virginity to her for fuck sake. I didnt just pair bond- i fell totally in love.

Aha anyway i suppose I will manslag myself now =]

I have written over one hundred articles on getting your ex back aswel as an ebook, but to be honest, I now realise exactly how hard implementing strategies are. Maybe ill leave things to shopping next week and ignore her for a month.

My only concern is that I know if she aint already over me she will bottle things up rather than tell me she wantrs me back. hmmm. though one. anyway g2g to work. Cya guys x

you know though, to be honest I want to keep this girl safe. Its basic instinct, but shes such a lil vulnerbale sweety i suppose i was pretty patronising and over protective, but she ddnt come across as that strong emotionally. I suppose she is aha.

hmmmm. I want- no fuck being ALPHA im need her back. I WILL get her back. even if it takes me 7 years of no contact. pft.

GOD I feel you man hahah !

We're all in the same boat

the AFC Boat lol
Im trying to get off asap though hahah

But hey man It sucks.
I hope you get her back. I too lost my virginity to my ex gf.

But my story is a little different. My girlfriend is a really mean bitch. She has lied, she has kept me on a leash, she flirted with other guys and told me she didnt. She might even have cheated on me. When I got LJBF'd she already had another guy lol
And while she was trying to break up with me, she wanted me to love her more. But I actually agreed to the break up, telling her that it was a good idea and then go partying. That's when we got back into a relationship again.
It was only untill I started to show my feelings for her again that she dumped me LOL
I feel so fucked in my ass you have no idea.

I must say though that 3 days after the break up I slept with another girl who is now a substitute for my ex gf.

I hope you get her back mate, good luck bro.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

haha my emotions fucked me up for a bit, and tbh now im pretty okay with the situation, have two fb's lined up. I am going to gain a harem, end of.

I have decided to just totally ignore her and fuck other hb's. Worst comes to worst, she doesnt ask me back out. She was my lil girl and i wanted to keep her safe, but tbh shes thrown herself into the frying pan so fuck her I aint gunna help her jump out and into the fire.

I have my whole life ahead of me and Im not going to include her unless she begs like a begger.

Sorry about the post yesterday, my emotions were fucking me up. I am back on game now.

x

I hope you mean that man.
Your truly a strong person for getting back on game so quickly.

I wish you all the best in getting over her or winning her back, or gaming other bitches with a vengance lol.

Goodluck!

hahaha ! Coach I love you man

My plan was to start a Harem too lol, and include my ex gf later. LOL

I have 3 FB's ready to go hahahah Im seeing one tomorrow. I met her last week and she says she loves me already lol xD I should be careful xD
I love game, I must say my gf screwed up my emotions too. I could barely eat or sleep but I kept doing the No Contact thing.
She dumped so she must come first now. And slowly I will lead her into my harem.
I know its wrong but I actually want to dump her brutally after she thinks she's in.. I told you my gf is a mean bitch, so she deserves it.

I have an advice for you though man, I know ur strong and stuff. But don't check out her facebook or anything. It will easily screw your emotions up back to square 1.
Just saying..

Goodluck and peace bro !

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Stop being cowards and just feel your bad emotions for christ sake. They are just feelings and won't ruin your life unless you let them take control for you. One year relationship, big whoop. Some men have to bury their wives after 30 years of marriage. THAT'S when you're allowed to fixate on your last relationship. You had a damn good experience, you learned a lot. Focus on that and get on with your life.

Just goes to show, anyone can write a pick up e-book, even virgins that have oneitis. Grrrr.

Yes I agree, and it has really put me in my place. It is easy to know theory, but putting it into practice takes effort.

I thought I was good because I had only ever been blown out of one set in my life and have approach maybe 250- 300 ish sets. Well yesterday I decided to try the good old cold approach out. I got blown out.

Normally I would have just giggled to myself, but damn it hurt, probably because of my breakup and shit. I approached, over shoulder, but for some reason my words came out rather mumbly. That has never happened before. I have a large ego and am very confident aha. But anyway I opened half successfully then told them the C's vs U smiles.

I got from the obstacle 'you know, I aint really interested.' So I used the good old *stare* 'your such a little shit' *smile* ' you know I eat girls like you for breakfast.'

Then I turn to the target, ignoring the obstacle and continue with the routine. She told me to go away. I had to eject.

I know it was all canned standard shit, but seeing as it was my first time in the field since the breakup (yes I practised during my LTR, but nowt serious) I wanted to just break in gently and test the water. After that I got a slight bit of AA aha. I walked down a street FULL of hb 8's in a scene get together and only opened a warm set (knew a girl in there) but ddnt go anywhere. I understand that with canned material especially, they arent rejecting me, but it just made e think of my ex LTR aha.

I know what I did wrong. I tried to lock into the set straight away, didn't disqualify myself straight away, and didn't come across as alpha. My dress wasn't 100% either.

This is fucking my game up. I got possibly the biggest NV-IOI from a hb9 in a three set. Usually I would have walked up, and given a semi direct open/close:

'Right I will cut short with you, because I want to go meet my friends, but I love it when girls are confident enough to get some decent eye contact with me. Now you are real pretty, but you usually aint my type, however, I just got out of a 15 month relationship, and I found out that looks arent everything. A great energy and personality are more important. I noticed from the way you looked at me that you are confident enough to just know what you want *point to self* and get it. But I need to know more about you. Name three things that would make me want to get to know you more than just another pretty fuck buddy.'

*answers*

'Okay I am intrigued, tell you what, I gotta go, but put your number in here *hand phone* and maybe one day when I am free we can hang out. Ill be judging you though, so try to impress me '

*walk off, turn back*

'By the way, it's really cute how you blush so much' *EXIT*




But hey guess what, I didn't do it.

Well I have a date lined up for next weekend. Supposed to be with my ex, but im gunna blow her off for another girl. Ill give her the gift of missing me, and hey she might come crawling. Ill make her wait though...

I have two potential fb's. Things aren't so bad. I just wanna keep her safe and cuddle her. Shes so vulnerable and cute, my perfect 10 *daydreams* ahhh well.

Ill find a shb11 with a mega sex drive =] I'm 16 shit happens it werent gunna be forever anyway lol.

You are 16 for fucks sake man. Stop over analyzing everything and just have fun.

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Dude, analysis has always been a good point which helps me mprove. Anyway I just secured a day 2 with a chick from facebook in under an hour so im pretty impressed with myself aha.

One txt read: 'I can tell your special n tbh once im in your arms i wont want you to let go x'

So to be fair mate I think being analytical pretty much works for me. No need to try and AMOG over the internet dude, you have nothing to prove here =] Its about mutual support and help, you aint gaming me =P

Dude, analysis has always been a good point which helps me mprove. Anyway I just secured a day 2 with a chick from facebook in under an hour so im pretty impressed with myself aha.

One txt read: 'I can tell your special n tbh once im in your arms i wont want you to let go x'

So to be fair mate I think being analytical pretty much works for me. No need to try and AMOG over the internet dude, you have nothing to prove here =] Its about mutual support and help, you aint gaming me =P

I am not trying to AMOG or game you so relax. I am just trying to point out that just going with the flow and not over-analyzing everything can be a good thing. I am extremley analytical so I know the value that it can have but I am much older than you and I also know that it can be a negative as well as a positive.

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Yeah man your right. I keep gettin mixed thoughts man. I rescheduled this date to tomorrow aha- i dnt get paid till friday so I have like ten quid to get a coffee or something lmao.

Im not gunna give my ex any emotion or really pay much attention for the next week, but im seeing her on sun so ill take her to a starbucks and just get shit loads of kino and emotion, try to flush her pipes. Then withdraw until i next see her out of school.

Overall I mean I have other dates itll just take a whle to get over her yano. Im just trying to relax back into life again. No major problems. Just keep changing my mind haha.

Best advice I can give you: Dont get all crazy and over excited about all this.
And dont show her that much...