It had been over 2 months I have been dating this girl... In the beginning of our relationship everything was ok and we had no problem making love till I move to a new house with her and she asked me to let her ex be our housemate and unfortunately I accepted (Her ex is my friend). Since the day we all move in the new house, she's just way too cold too me, we had never slept together this whole time and havent made love, not even a single time... Im looking for a way to bring intimacy and s e x back to my relationship... would be really happy to hear your thoughts and suggestions =)

First of all, two months and you've moved in with your girlfriend??

What happens when you initiate sex? does she decline? have you tried?
How long has it been since you haven't had sex together?

How much do you trust your friend? How much do you trust your girlfriend?
Have you thought about confronting her about this?

Sorry about all the questions, but i hope to make you think about the whole situation. Also, I'm sure that more information will help us give you more informed advice. It seems like your looking for an easy solution from this forum because it seems as if you haven't tried much to alleviate it. Its good to try to figure things out on your own too.

I agree that we need more information. I would also like to know what you are doing for her. A relationship need to be about you two. Do you make her fell that you love her, for you make her feel that she is wanted and special. Take care of her and she will take care of you (if she's a decent girl that is).

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I hav always wanted to try it but everytime Im gonna stay over at her room to sleep she declines it and the rest of the time her ex is around that makes her feel uncomfortable getting close to me which mean I have never had a chance to try.

Honetly, i've lost my trust in my friend and her recently, I dont know that im misunderstanding or there's really something wrong!

Since she always declines I stay over at her room which means she declines sex coz she gives no opportunity for me to initiate it, what would you recommend me to do?

by the way, it has been over a month since last time we made love

I took best care of her, showed her my love by actions and words, and care about her a lot as she could obviously see... but I dont really feel she cares about me or have any feelings anymore although she's still with me (I dont know its the way she really is now, or its all is because of her ex who is always around us)